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Postby scorry » Sat Aug 23, 2003 11:32 am

Hi Girls,<br> Thorfinn MacLeod Scott arrived at 3am on Saturday 16th August.<br>He died at 17 minutes past. Apparently he was not compatable with life outside my body and was ok as long as I was breathing for him, it was nothing anyone could've picked up on a scan, nobody's fault and nothing we could have done to prevent this. We had his funeral yesterday and will have to go to Aberdeen in 8 weeks to discuss the findings of the P.M.<br>It feels like I'm going to wake up and it was all a dream, I think DH and I are running on auto pilot, he is just gutted and I think sometimes it's him I'm crying for.<br>I don't really know what to do next, I just feel so empty after holding him. Thank God we have lovely photos of him.<br>He was worth all the treatment and I'm glad I went through the labour just to see his beautiful face.<br>I hope you understand if I don't post for a bit.<br><br><br><br>Scorry <br>
me:34 DH:34 TTC 3 1/2 years
PGon 1st ICSI. full-term boy. neonatal death due to medical error.
currently on 1st FET cycle.
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Postby Helen G » Sat Aug 23, 2003 1:26 pm

Scorry<br><br>I don't know what to say - you must be absolutely devestated. I'm not even going to attempt to put anything into words, other than to say - take care of each other.<br><br>My thoughts are with you and dh.<br><br>LOL Helen xx
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Postby Lizzy7 » Sat Aug 23, 2003 1:53 pm

Scorry and DH,<br><br>So utterly sorry to hear your sad news - nothing i can say but take good, good care of eachother. Your angel will always be with you,<br><br>Thinking of you,<br>Much love, Lizzy xxx
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Postby ogr » Sat Aug 23, 2003 2:57 pm

i am so sorry. i wish i had some words of wisdom but i dont think there are any..<br> my heart and prayers are with you.<br>you can e-mail me <br> ogr@tfalls.net<br>please be aware that your milk will come in. know one told me and i almost went over the edge and not came back. and all of the blood was a reminder of what was lost.<br> my all my love becky
cleaning out my old desk and found a cd that had a bunch of stuff on it and one of my old names and password was on it and it worked.. hopefuly i can find my first name that i used..
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Postby suzanne » Sat Aug 23, 2003 3:50 pm

Scorry,<br><br>like the others I really don't know what to say, but just wanted you to know that my heart goes out to you and your DH.<br><br>Thinking of you both at this very sad time.<br><br>Suzanne.x
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Postby woppa » Sat Aug 23, 2003 4:11 pm

I am just devestated to read your news. I dont have any words I can offer you but just tell you to be there for each other. Your wee boy will be playing with my Cameron, Becky's Moses and Louise's Jack in the best playground in the world !!<br>lots of hugs and kisses<br>love woppa<br>xxxxxxx<br>Hope you like this xxx<br><br>WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME.<br>When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see,<br>If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me;<br>I wish so much you wouldn't cry, the way you did today,<br>While thinking of the many things, we didn't get to say.<br>I know how much you love me, as much as I love you,<br>And each time that you think of me, I know you miss me too.<br>But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,<br>That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand;<br>And said my place was ready, in heaven far above,<br>And that I'd have to leave behind, all those I dearly love.<br>But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,<br>For my life had not long started, and I didn't want to die.<br>I had so much to live for, so much to learn and do,<br>It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.<br>I thought of all the times to come, the good one's and the bad,<br>I thought of all the love we'd share, it made me feel so sad.<br>If I could spend just one day, or even a little while,<br>I'd tell you how I love you, and I'd show you my big smile.<br>But then I fully realised, that this could never be,<br>For emptiness and memories, would take the place of me.<br>And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow,<br>I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow.<br>But when I walked through Heaven's gates, I felt so much at home,<br>When God looked down and smiled at me, upon his golden throne.<br>"This is eternity he said, and all I've promised you,<br>Today for life on earth is passed, but here it starts anew.<br>I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,<br>And since each day's the same day, there's no longing for the past.<br>My child you was to special, I had to set you free,<br>So won't you take my loving hand, and share my life with me?"<br>So when tomorrow starts without me, mummy don't think we're far apart,<br>For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart.
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Postby Zed2003 » Sat Aug 23, 2003 6:19 pm

No words are enough at this time. Take care of each other.<br>You are in my thoughts<br>Zoe x
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2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
3rd IVF Summer 2003 - pos with beautiful baby boy
April 2006 - miracles happen - positive naturally day after receiving IVF letter to start again! Another beautiful boy
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Postby Jules R » Sat Aug 23, 2003 7:10 pm

Scorry,<br><br>I am so very sorry to hear your news. I can't begin to imagine how much you must be hurting but you and your husband are in our thoughts.<br><br>Jules
TTC 5 years. Daniel & Charlotte born 22.03.02, 1st ICSI treatment. TTC for 4 further years. 2nd ICSI cycle abandoned, 3rd cycle BFN. Looking forward to being a happy family of 4.
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Postby beck » Sat Aug 23, 2003 9:15 pm

im so sorry to hear this....im crying for you both.....please take time to heal your hearts, like woppa said there is a lovely play ground that your child is playing in.<br><br>with all my love <br>beck<br>xx
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Postby GB » Sun Aug 24, 2003 10:36 am

Dear Scorry and DH,<br>Just know that I'm thinking of you through this awful time!<br>Take time to heal properly and pamper yourselves.<br>Be strong and take care.<br>May you only know of good things from now on.<br>Love<br>Gila.<br>x-x-x
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Postby heather » Sun Aug 24, 2003 3:00 pm

Scorry & DH,<br><br>I'm so sorry to hear your tragic news. Nothing can be said to make you feel better or take your pain away, but i just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of you both,<br><br>Heather<br>xxx
Got pregnant with IUI triplets in March 04. One triplet stopped growing at 9 weeks. Gave birth to twin boys in Sep 04, Ciaran sadly lost his fight. Brennan's thriving.Looking to give Brennan a sibling soon.
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Postby KirstyC » Sun Aug 24, 2003 5:14 pm

Oh Scorry,<br>My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dh at this tragic time.<br>All my love<br>Kirsty<br>xx
TTC for 7 yrs (have severe endo and pcos and hubby has v low sperm) until became pg after ICSI cycle last feb. Now am the lucky mother of perfect little boy called Joshua born last october.
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Postby Loonpants » Sun Aug 24, 2003 7:07 pm

Scorry<br><br>I was so sorry to read your posting. Words fail me right now but know that I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. <br><br>Love and hugs<br><br>Lisa(Loonpants)<br>xxx
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Postby Nina1 » Sun Aug 24, 2003 7:52 pm

Dear Scorry and DH,<br><br>I'm so sorry. I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you at this awful time. <br><br>with love,<br>Nina
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Postby caz1 » Sun Aug 24, 2003 9:47 pm

Dear Scorry and dh<br>You dont know me- but I just wanted to add my love and thoughts. Am thinking of you.<br>all the best , <br>be brave <br><br>Cazx
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