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Announcement of pregnancy and birth following assisted reproductive treatment.
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Tracey S
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Post by Tracey S » Tue Dec 09, 2003 7:41 am

As ususual you lot have come up trumps - funny when you all sling back my advice - how dare you??!!!<br>Honestly thank you - have read back through my message yesterday and what appalling English.<br>Fiona LK - would love to catch up - just need to get Helen there now! I am working for Nik while she is away - I use the word in the loosest possible meaning of the word!! Her phone does not work in my house and I can't email out - mmmm all looking very good!<br>She knows by the way - texted her in Mauritious (the witch)<br>Jules K - knew you would be pleased - just now need to get where you are!<br>Emma - can't believe how quickly it has come round - my goodness - mind you bet you think it's a long time coming! CAn you remember your HCG at all - I know mine is day 16 so will be higher - still not got sore boobs - suppose should make the most of it.<br>Jo - sorry haven't been around and you Shell! you understand I am sure.<br>All the Becky's - can't believe how many there are of course now! Glad you are all ok - some of us go way back hey!<br>Rachel - glad all going ok.<br>Lisa - hope I can join you - double congrats by the way.<br>Dagny - hope I have less trauma than my last pg and of yours! Glad you are ok.<br>Woppa my special friend - how are you - got over the milestone yet? - sorry to hear you news but have been praying and crossing everything for you.<br>Anyone I have left out - sorry but thanks for all the support - honestly I never replaced my brain cells from before! Down hill slope<br>One good thing - I DID NOT TAKE ASPIRIN THIS TIME!!! and feel better for biting the bullet and not taking it - they said it was not needed and some of the results are showing less success with women taking it so thought no don't!!! Am on vit e though. <br>Will let you know how Friday goes - won't be on here as much as normal as want to take it easy and not tempt fate - daft I know and also not at work anymore so have to pay for this.<br>Love to all<br>Tracey<br>xxx<br>Ps Tissue anyone?
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by Jo Locker » Tue Dec 09, 2003 10:11 am

You are so welcome. Everyone understands your need to lay low and just get through the first weeks - wish I had a time machine and could just fast forward things a bit for you. We're all with you for friday, you know that.<br><br>Stop fretting about your boobs - mine have never really been sore right the way through - someone on this site recently (can't remember who) was pummelling their chest in a bid to make it hurt a bit more - please stop short of this won't ya??<br><br>Take it easy & lots & lots of love - jo. XXXXX<br>(ps - work gets harder and harder, not physically just being bothered about anything to an adequate degree - feels weird feeling like this but it just seems so unimportant and its hard to maintain the facade that you give a toss about the work or the clients - he he he !!!!) XXX<br><br>

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Post by Tracey S » Wed Dec 10, 2003 8:09 am

Jo<br><br>Thanks for that - you khow I have missed our little chats - or not so little - have not been back to work since we lost Oliver and really trying to set something up from home<br>Working for Nikola whilst she is on hollies as I have loads of recruitment experience.<br>Take special care and try to be nice to clients<br>Love<br>tracey<br>xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by beck » Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:09 pm

good to see you back tracy xx

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Post by fiona_lk » Fri Dec 12, 2003 12:08 pm

Hi Tracey,<br><br>Every night I keep meaning to call Helen to arrange a meeting in between Christmas and New Year (or just after), but my head is in such a spin after work (and the hour travelling home!!!) I'm afraid I wouldn't be much good conversation (I keep forgetting the words I want to say in mid sentance at work!!!). Will try harder tonight/over the weekend.<br><br>Do you know exactly when her hols are? Perhaps when Nik is back we should make a real big effort to get together - Les is certainly up for meeting Helen and David again so he'll set the time aside if everyone is happy for dh's to come along too. Not being too sure where you and Nik are, would Chesterfield sound like a good half-way mark?<br><br>So, has 'work' been busy then for you? :)<br><br>Hope things are going as OK as can be with your appointment today - I am thinking of you and sending you hugs sweetie<br><br>Lots of Love<br><br><br>Fiona xxx<br><br>
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!

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Post by Tracey S » Sat Dec 13, 2003 10:02 am

Fiona<br><br>Hols - right - well Nik gets back this saturday - ie week today - durr brain! Helen goes to Northumberland on 22nd December and I think Nik goes to Northumberland as she comes back.<br>Ian and are are loafing around mainly so are pretty free and then he goes in to his busy period jan 2nd and I won't see him again then!<br>Life at home is manic dog looking after<br>PM was as could be expected - had to wait 40 mins for the consultant!!!!!!!! and then when he went thro it all Oliver was really not a well boy - lots of things wrong with him but not sure which one (if any in isolation) was the cause of death. Most of the major organs ok but small heart problem - not serious but serious bladder problem and double cleft palate and shortened arms..... etc - not a recognized syndrome and not likely they think to necessarily happen again.<br>WE have the funeral next friday and I still don't feel pg - no sore boobs - always have sore boobs.<br>WE are in south lincs near grantham so chesterfield good and would be fine for Nik too - speaking on her behalf of course!<br>Love to you both<br>Tracey<br>xxxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by SallyP » Mon Dec 15, 2003 1:32 pm

Hi Tracey,<br>What terrible churned up emotions you must have at the moment, I really feel for you,it must be such a rollercoaster of worry, sadness, hope and elation. I hope that Friday is a beautiful, peaceful, spiritual day when you say goodbye to Oliver. Am so glad that his little brother or sister is with you, and your baby will always have a guiding big brother looking over him or her from the other side.<br>I know you're worried that you don't feel pg, but am sure you'll feel differently when you have your first scan and perhaps finally allow yourself to believe it, although you must be dreading the scan at the same time (get some Rescue Remedy!).<br>Love Sally xxx
Me - severe endo, DH - poor sperm. First IVF ICSI Nov 02 neg. Second IVF/ICSI May 03 Positive.
Miracle baby Jay born on 27th January 04

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Post by Tracey S » Tue Dec 16, 2003 8:09 am

Sally<br><br>thanks - rescue remedy ok when PG??? You ok by the way?<br>Love<br>Tracey<br>xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by SallyP » Wed Dec 17, 2003 11:58 am

Hi Trace, <br><br>Rescue remedy fine I believe - the essences are preserved in minute doses of alcohol and you're only taking a couple of drops. Or you can just keep the bottle on your person and/or meditate on it - the vibrations from the essence will still be there (so my more witchy friends tell me!). Good job it's not the middle ages (and I've got a black cat!).<br><br>I'm fine thanks, much happier to see your good news - I'm now nearly 33 weeks and apart from low lying placenta (which means possible hospital admission from 35 weeks then early c-section at 37 weeks) have been feeling generally fine - much better than I ever expected I would! <br><br>Best of luck for 19th, my thoughts and love are on their way to you,<br>love Sally xxx
Me - severe endo, DH - poor sperm. First IVF ICSI Nov 02 neg. Second IVF/ICSI May 03 Positive.
Miracle baby Jay born on 27th January 04

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