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Post by jen » Sat Dec 27, 2003 12:26 pm

Hi Girls<br><br>I'm a bit late with our update but didn't really feel up to posting. The HCG levels on Wed just went up from 3075 to 3220, the doctor thought it may be eptopic so rang my GP and made me go to A&E. Well it wasn't eptopic, they said it was probably just a very weak pregnancy and I would miscarry. Which I did yesterday, very yucky.<br><br>I still feel very sad but have had lots of hugs and cries and a few glasses of red wine. Think I'll have to go for a scan Mon or Tues to make sure they're all gone. <br><br>We seem to get a bit further each time so we will go again and we will get pregnant and we will have our little baby or babies.<br><br>Hope you are all resting up and enjoying your pregnancies and Christmas. Love to you all.<br><br>Love Jen xx

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Post by bubblymichelle » Sat Dec 27, 2003 12:59 pm

Hi Jen,<br><br>My thoughts are with you at this sad time, words fail me, and I can only imagine what you must be going through. One day you will have your dream come true and hold your precious baby/babies in your arms.<br>Keep your chin up, easier said then done.<br>Take Care<br>Love<br>Shell.<br>xx

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Post by helenlouise » Sat Dec 27, 2003 5:49 pm

I'm so sorry for you Jen.<br>Look after yourself.<br>helenxxx
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Post by Tracey S » Sun Dec 28, 2003 10:32 am

Jen<br><br>I am so sorry - I knew we were due to scan on the same day. Things do get better - I am still panicking as I have so far to go with what has happened to me - one ectopic and one died at 20 weeks. I hope you find you dream in 2004<br>Love<br>Tracey<br>xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by JULES K » Sun Dec 28, 2003 12:49 pm

Hi Jen,<br><br>really really sorry to hear your terrible news. I hope 2004 brings your dream to you.<br><br>thinking of you and dh<br><br>Julie xx

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Post by jen » Sun Dec 28, 2003 6:54 pm

Thanks for the kind support girls. I've to go for a scan either tomorrow or tues.<br><br>Any ideas???? - Phoned for HCG results from Boxing Day (hospital never rang me) and they went from 3075 on 22nd to 3220 on 24th to 8367 on 26th. Confused now, shouldn't they be going down. I'm still bleeding. Could it be a miracle??? Scan will reveal all anyway, just want to be able to draw a line under this.<br><br>Take care<br>Love Jen xx

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Post by Lisa Ch » Sun Dec 28, 2003 8:36 pm

Jen<br><br>sorry to read your post. Don't know about hcg levels but am praying that it could be a christmas miracle. Take care for tomorrow.<br><br>Love Lisa xx

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Post by Jo Locker » Mon Dec 29, 2003 10:24 am

So sorry to hear the news Jen, you must be so disappointed. As you say, you can do it, you've proved that, and its just a matter of getting a bit further next time hopefully and not losing sight of your dream.<br><br>Lots of love - Jo. X

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Post by Helen Reid » Mon Dec 29, 2003 11:41 am

Jen <br>So sorry to here your news. I hope that 2004 brings you and your dh better news. <br><br>Helen
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I.V.F started in 2001. 1st cycle +ve mc nov 2001 at 12 weeks. Fet mar 2002 +ve then -ve.
2nd cycle +ve eptopic oct 2002 6 weeks.
fet mar 2003 -ve. 3rd cycle over stimulated embies frozen. Fet nov 2003 +ve due 11/8/04.

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Post by Tracey S » Mon Dec 29, 2003 12:11 pm

Jen<br><br>Those HCG - they would go down not up like that - sure it's not twins with you having lost one? I remember Wibbs going through the same thing.<br>Don't hold out for anything but try not to lose hope it that makes sense - good luck<br>Love<br>Tracey<br>xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!

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Post by GB » Tue Dec 30, 2003 1:34 pm

Hi Jen<br>Once again, just wanted to say hi and that I'm soo gutted for you.<br>May 2004 be a better year for you.<br>Take care.<br>Lotsa luv<br>Gila<br>x-x-x

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Post by jen » Tue Dec 30, 2003 4:44 pm

Hi Girls<br><br>Just here with a quick update - as we thought, scan showed nothing there, I have miscarried. There is still some product left so they want me to have a D&C but not until Monday - talk about dragging this out. They'll ring me on Fri and if all the bleeding has stopped then I might not have to have the D&C.<br><br>Feel a bit better now that we've gotten a clear result. Thanks for all your support and have a fantastic new year. Good luck to all of you with scans comming up - you'll all have great news.<br><br>Lots of love<br>Jen xx

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Post by Wibbs1 » Tue Dec 30, 2003 5:17 pm

Jen<br>Sooooo Sorry I was hoping like me you had another little one hanging on in there...so I am Gutted for you, as I know what you are going thru.<br>Try and stay positive and get thru the newyear with renewed HOPE.<br>Keeping it all crossed for you and DH hope 2004 is your year.<br><br>Big Hug<br>Wibbs<br>XXXX

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