Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

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Niki.F
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Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

Post by Niki.F » Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:53 pm

Hi everyone I am 14 weeks today and have been suffering pretty bad with morning sickness since week 6.
I have vented a little to people about dealing with being sick in hopes to maybe learn of a remedy or sometimes just to vent.
Let's be honest, morning sickness is never a good time. One of my coworkers told me that I should never complain about being sick because of everything I've been through. I should just deal and be grateful! I was crazy offended. How dare she judge me and how thankful I am for having this child because I don't like being sick all the time. Has anyone ever encountered rudeness like this from outside people? Are we not allowed to act like normal pregnant women because we needed a little extra help? I guess we are not afforded the same allowances as "natural" mothers. I responded that my not liking morning sickness has nothing to do with my love or want for this beautiful child. She told me I was taking it too personally. Am I crazy or was she incredibly rude and insensitive? She is also pregnant if that makes a difference.

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Re: Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

Post by 4Greenapples » Wed Jul 24, 2013 8:40 pm

I've had a IVF pregnancy, and a surprise natural pregnancy. I found the rude comments come no matter how the little one(s) got in there. Keep in mind that the extra hormones and the sickness make us all a bit more sensitive. The best, and I feel the only proper, comment to a pregnant lady is "you look great!". Let her have her opinions and move on.

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Re: Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

Post by indaylovey » Thu Aug 08, 2013 8:53 am

Same here but the morning sickness only last after a month but i was able to carry it and Im used to it now.. I'm due in December and so excited to see my Baby Girl. Please wish me luck for a safe delivery soon.

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Re: Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

Post by soniya123 » Fri Apr 03, 2015 9:59 am

Morning sickess is a misnomer.for some women it is the symptoms are wrose in morning and ease up over the course of the
day but it is a normal things it is vary women to women.
:)

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Re: Rude comments about your pregnancy after doing ivf

Post by rahulkumar123 » Tue Oct 25, 2016 12:31 pm

Morning Sickness is a very normal when you are pregnant

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