What should I do?

[kvgsmom]

I have gone through IVF and had sucess twice. This was after 2 fresh cycles and 2 frozen cycles. One child was the result of a frozen and the other a fresh cycle. Right now we are saying that 2 children are more than we could have imagined having several years ago. We are so blessed to have our girls. Now I have to make a decision on what to do with the frozen embryos I have left in storage. Do I pay the yearly fee every year, knowing that 2 is all we want, do I donate them for study, science or do I destroy them. I have become very attached to them and I feel that anything but keeping them is cruel. Silly? The previous costs were enough... do I keep dishing out money? What would you do?

[Alette]

What a dilemma.

I think you can only decide yourself.

I had frozen embryo's too but I wanted them back myself.

I never was in the position of choice.
(yeah, I could have distroyed them... NO WAY.. if they were going to die, then inside me..) (besides, I would have loved to have 2, even 10 children).

Donating is such a wonderfull thing... but I never would be sure if I could bear the knowledge of eventual children of me -and my husband- walking around...without me knowing...

If I were you... I think I would pay the fee... till I know what to do with them..

that is my honest answer.

Good luck with deciding!!

Love,
Alette

[mally]

Hi,

If the fee is not so much, just continue paying, until you have cleared you are setting of what to do with it.

If it so expensive, then you can consider the benefits that it may offer to others, if it sent to a laboratory for study.

What I will not advise you to do, is to donate it for ivf purposes, that can cause an emotional trauma with in the long run.

You are very lucky, some of us are still stuggling to have a baby.

Mally

[waleed111]

What I will not advise you to do, is to donate it for ivf purposes, that can cause an emotional trauma with in the long run.




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[rahulkumar123]

Do not donate for the IVF purposes

[KapilSinghal2001]

I figure you can just choose yourself.

I had solidified incipient organism's as well however I needed them back myself.

I never was in the situation of decision.

(better believe it, I could have distroyed them... No chance.. in the event that they would bite the dust, at that point inside me..) (plus, I would have wanted to have 2, even 10 youngsters).

Giving is such a wonderfull thing... be that as it may, I never would make certain on the off chance that I could bear the learning of possible offspring of me - and my better half strolling around...without me knowing...

In the event that I were you... I figure I would pay the expense... till I realize what to do with them..

Rregatds
Kapil Singhal
Owner at Ekdantam Dental implant in jaipur