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Need some support

Postby peace4all2c » Mon Oct 30, 2006 8:58 pm

Just got the bad news today that our IVF was not successful. The blood test came back negative. I am at my witts end and feel as if i am never going to be able to get pregnant. We have been trying for over 2 years. I keep getting the disappointing news and i cant take it. I am very depressed!!!!!!
Honey :( :cry:
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Hang In there!!!

Postby hope2006 » Tue Oct 31, 2006 6:48 pm

:( I know first hand how hard it is. You just have to keep in your mind, it is not your time yet. Have faith! I know all you want to do is cry. One year I cried everyday in the shower where noone could hear me. I will be going on my 6th IVF in January. If that doesnt work I want to adopt. Because I am not getting any younger. The whole decision has been very difficult for us. I will pray for you. Dont give up!
Warmly, JoNell

IUI=13 Failed
3 Chemical Preg.
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Postby cheekymonkey » Fri Nov 03, 2006 11:50 am

Just wanted to post you to let you know that you are not alone with the way you are feeling right now! All I seem to get on this journey is bad news and things going wrong but I truely believe that my time will come and that one day I will have a child for us to love!
It is very difficult to pick yourself up after getting bad news but you really must try and keep on with this journey untill you reach your goal!
We are always here for you when you are feeling down and I know it is easy to say but try and treat yourself and take your mind off things for a while and you will come back ready to begin again!
I hope you feel better soon!
Take Care
Cheeky Monkey :D
Me 27 PCOS DH 28 TTC 5 years
6 clomid 03-04 -BFN /
3 IUI's 05 - 2 Cnx & 1 BFN
1st IVF 06 - Cnx (OHSS)
2nd IVF 06 - Freeze All
1st FET 07 - BFP - M/C 5wks
2nd FET 07 - BFN
3rd IVF 07 - Freeze All
3rd FET 08 - BFN
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Location: Glasgow

Postby Ems1971 » Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:04 pm

Hi just wanted to say I know exactly how you feel. We have been TTC for 4 and a half years now and have been told the chances are pretty slim even with IVF because of my condition. Its hard to swallow but it does get a bit easier as time goes on.

We have decided to have one more go in January and if that fails we will definately look at adoption. I am not getting any younger (35) and we don't want the rest of my 30's being taken up with surgery and medical treatment. At least this way we will be able to move on and not be in limbo the whole time.

I will keep everything crossed for you. Keep positive and try not to let it consume you. I know its hard not to, I've been there.

Good luck

Emma x
ME 38 DH 32
Severe Endo
1st IVF Sept 06 - BFN
2nd IVF Jan 07 - BFP! Ruby May born 24.10.07
3rd IVF March 10 - BFP on 30.3.10! Iris Josephine born 1.12.10
Our family is complete
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Location: Kent, England

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