I noticed there aren't many current posts in this area. I hope that means that we have a lot more success stories out there. I truly feel for all of you who have been through this kind of loss. It is more difficult than anyone can imagine until they've experienced it themselves. My sister has had 4 M/Cs and I am only just beginning to understand her pain.
I just found out that I miscarried yesterday at my 2nd U/S. Apparently the baby stopped growing sometime last week and did not have a heartbeat yesterday. Doctor was surprised, as the hb was really strong 2 weeks before and everything appeared to be right on track.
I'm doing ok, I think. Grieving, going through moments of tears along with moments of just "blaa". I'm not feeling especially great... I've had no bleeding whatsoever and am scheduled for D&C tomorrow pm (thank God I don't have to wait thru the weekend).
I feel like I need to start looking forward, toward the next cycle, to help to bring myself out of this funk. My dr said we could begin our next fresh IVF/ICSI cycle in Feb or Mar.
I want to ask about embie transfer numbers. My dr has said from the beginning that she's fine with 2, but will try to talk me out of 3. This was fine with me, in the beginning. Her reasons were that I have no history of infertility (DH had vasectomy), I'm healthy and 34yo. So she saw no need for more than 2. However, in speaking with my acupuncturist during my last cycle, he said he would have transferred 3. Now that I'm about to begin thinking of my 3rd cycle, this is a more appealing option to me. I know there are great risks associated with multiples, esp more than 2, and I know I couldn't do "selective reduction"...
My thoughts are that I've had 2 failed IVF attempts. In both cycles, I had 7 good-to-great quality embies. 1st - 2 excellent quality, transferred both, neither "took". 2nd - 3 excellent quality, transferred 2, 1 took (both day 3). In both cases, I had zero blasts that made it to freeze. It's not that we're not getting good results, but doesn't it say something about the true quality of the eggs/embies or me that they don't seem to want to continue to grow???? There seem to be a lot of folks out there who have the option of FET. I just wonder why mine don't seem to make it.
Well, that's my deal... if anyone has any experience with lack of frozen embies, wanting to transferring 3, etc... I'd love to hear your thoughts.