What are the chances?

[jenice]

Gi thanks for the encouragement,I think I will do hpt on 7th day post transfer.I know it could be a false negative but I have to try.Little nervous about multiples. The blastocysts have a 50% each of implanting.I'll take what is givin to me I think I would be devastated to get to this point and it not work but I have to think positive.you have less than 2 weeks to see the little one via ultrasound getting excited!!!! If I am pregnant I want to know the sex this time. The first time I didn't and it was nice for a surprise but I don't care as much what sex the baby is as long as it is healthy. Talk to you soon

[jenice]

To all the Ladies-wanted to let you know my 1st in-vitro cycle failed.I don't know if I'll continue to try.I am miserable I feel like I've just wasted my time.This was my 3rd cycle 2 were cancelled and this one failed.Everything was looking great transferred 2 blastocysts. My confidence in in-vitro is shot.I feel it is like tossing coins up into the air and sometimes you catch some and sometimes you don't???????? My chances were supposed to be good my embryos were good!!!!! I have a daughter via clomid.So I would think my uterus is good.Life is cruel!!!!!!!

[gi]

Jenice,

I am so sorry to hear about your result i was really hoping you would get your bfp. I saw your post to Ghost and i too think you should go down the FET route i know they are day 2 but they could still be good embies maybe they could thaw them and leave till blasts?? Is there any chance you could try the clomid again??? Go give your little daugther a big hug she will help you thro. this xxxx

[jenice]

Gi, thanks for the support, I'm doing a little better today not as much!!!! I'm not sure what to do.Maybe do another fresh cycle I made appt with RE not for a couple of weeks.Still haven't had my P yet.I guess the progesterone messed me up.Could my frozen embies still divide after the thaw ? They could let them try to go to blastocyst if I wanted them too? I'm very lucky to have my daughter, she was upset that I was crying she gave me lots of hugs I give you alot of credit for going through everything with 6 IVF cycles. I must say it is worth every neddle stick!!! I wish you and hubby the best and congrats again you deserve that baby!!!! It is so exciting and amazing experience if you have any ? just give me a holla back!!!!

[gi]

hey jenice,

Chin up girl i know this is hard but you are a tough cookie!! Yeah your embies can divide after thawing, mine were frozen on day 3 and on thaw they started to divide again, just because they were frozen on day 2 doesnt mean they still cant make it to blasts sure blasts have to start at day 1! Your p should come soon once you stop the meds. I hope to see you around the boards soon xxxx

[jenice]

Gi, thanks for your support. I might try my frozen embies first worth a shot.I think i better mentally prepare myself for it to fail again.Prepare for another fresh cycle. I was really sore after egg retrieval worse than some of my surgeries I've had.I'm not looking forward to that ever again.

[gi]

Hi Ert

If you are reading this i was just wondering were you given any answers after the tests they did following your 2 losses. I am in the same boat and found out last wk that my baby's heart stopped beating, this is also my 2nd loss in 4 months and both between 7-10wks. I am changing clinics but would like to get them to do some tests before doing another cycle. Still waiting on a d&c this has been the longest 7 days of my life.

gi xx

[jenice]

Gi, was wondering how you are doing ? You have been through so much already. I had lost 2 pregnancies through ectopics before my DD. They were early but still very devastating especially since the first one I had to have surgery the next morning. I always felt cheated that I never got to enjoy my first pregnancy @ all. It seemed like a cruel joke. Second one I knew I was pregnant but had to wait it out a couple of weeks, and that one was ectopic also. Thankfully I didn't need surgery for that one.The next pregnancy was my charm and had DD. I guess 3rd time is the charm worked for me and I hope it does for you. I know this doesn't probably sound reassuring right now but you have been pregnant twice. I remember my RE saying that was half the battle. I would talk to your RE about things to change. Myself for the FET I want assisted hatching performed.I started baby aspirin. Right now I might have the swine flu, lucky me !!!!! Keep your chin up and hope you feel better as each day passes

[gi]

Thanks jenice hopefully 3rd time is a charm for me too!! Sorry to hear you didnt get to enjoy your 1st pregnancy that must have been hard. Had d&c yesterday and very sore today but other than that i feel good. The doctors and nurses were great esp.the gynie. and if we get pg again will take extra care of us with extra early scans and more meds. Hope all is well with you xxxx