I lost one of my babies at 10 weeks, and although I still carry his/her sister I am still devastated and so sad that this baby died. Whether the baby was a few weeks old or not it was your baby however old it was. I am so sorry that you have gone through this loss.
, and I hope that the pain will soon start to ease.
Denise, I am so sorry for your loss too. Its so hard to suffer this much agony and life does seem so unfair. When one of my babies died, I did not miscarry it but it just slowly got absorbed by my body. At the 16 week scan it was still there a bit, but was shrinking every week, and we no longer saw it at the 20w scan. It felt really weird having a dead baby in my tummy and a big part of me wanted to bleed it out, but this would have left me scared for the remaining twin. Have you spoken to the doctors about a d&c, or is this not your choice.
My heart goes out to you, and I understand that you need the visual proof that its over, so that you can move on.
Everytime I see a butterfy I think this is my little lost baby coming to say hello.
Thinking of you both.
Love from Sophie-jane