I am doing ok, trying to keep busy so I don;t really think about the bfn. We are finishing up a play porch for ella. It is coming out awesome, we already painted and now just need to put the new floor down and move in the furniture. It is like extreme makeover porch edition, except it takes them a week to build a whole house, and it is taking us over a week to do a teeny tiny enclosed porch!
I went to see RE yesterday and he said 8-10 weeks for FET. I guess a few weeks of bcp's, a few weeks of lupron then a couple weeks of estrogen pills and then the transfer. I went for bw and u/s today and got the all clear to start my bcp's tonight. He also wants to evaluate my uterus by biopsy. He doesn't suspect anything, but wants to rule it out. He honestly said he doesn't know why I am not pregnant and that I should be. We are chalking it up to just not working for any reason, we just fell on the bad side of the percentages this time.
I asked for a discount for the FET, but no go. It will be the full $5000, which we will either finance or be able to save before july. Plus we have the loan to pay from this time...it really stinks to pay that. I was also hoping to have the FET much sooner than 8-10 weeks, but nothing I can do about it.
I gotta try and catch up with you all! I have been so self involved for the past week or two with the 2ww.
Suga- I agree with you about diapers.com. I am going to check them out again, since I would love delivery, but I think I checked them out a long time ago, and sam's club was cheaper in bulk, so I just go there since I get the formula from there anyway.
gecko- thanks for thinking about me. Sorry to hear declan is having trouble with teething. Ella still shows no signs of teeth, but I am afraid of when they come, I bet she will be real fussy too.
rio- so sorry to hear about that fever! Ella has only ever had a slight fever after shots, but never for no apparent reason. Did you call the dr? Is he feeling better by now?
weezie- thanks for the hugs and so good to hear from you. I am glad gavin is doing well, but sounds like no fun for still waking up at night...I am glad that is over with Ella! Hopefully he will sleep through the night soon.
Washingtonda- I am so sorry to hear michaela is still waking. I can imagine how hard it is one you and dh. I wish I had an answer for you. It seems our trick was not to make a big deal out of bed time. We change her diaper, but her in a sleep sack and lay her down, give her a paci and turn on her aquarium. She almost always goes right to sleep and sleeps straight through. On rare occasions she will wake and cry, but I just give her back her paci and she goes right back. I hope she starts sleeping for you soon.
kbear and mellie- thank you for your kind words also. It is so nice to know so many people really care, and I have ladies to talk to who understand.
Ok, dinner time...it is so late for dinner, but thats the way we roll around here!
Me- 28 DH- 33 Male Factor
1st IVF- 12/07- BFP! Ella Michele was born 8/26/8
2nd IVF- 04/09 - BFN
1st FET- 09/09 - Chemical
3rd IVF - 04/11 - Embies didn't make it to ET
4th IVF - Fall 2011??