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Postby kdc2006 » Mon Jul 31, 2006 10:43 am

for my niece ,who gave birth yesterday to her stillborn son....at 20 weeks.

dear debbie,

im so sorry at the hurt and pain you are going through...i know its not easy for you or your gibby, i just want you to know that i feel your pain and can only imagine how devastated and hollow you feel....i sense it on the phone to your mum.....
everyone tells me he looks lovely and a perfect little man...i will be home as soon as he is released for you's to bury....i also found it comforting to know you want him buried with your nana....im sure mum will be waiting with baited breath for her great grand son...she will look after him....

before i go,i want you to know im so proud of you debbie...proud of the way you have coped even when you are so heartbroken...it's your birthday next week...you will be 25yrs old...still young but with an empty heart....we..your family will be there for you and help guide and fill that heart of yours right back up....

take care and see you soon
all my love auntie kareen...xxxxxx
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Postby ogr1 » Mon Jul 31, 2006 9:13 pm

i am so so sorry. my heart and prayers are with you and your family.

you have some hard days ahead of you.
please know that there are alot of us here that will be here for you .
our son was born to early we where able to hold him in our arms while he took his last breaths.
it was 2 days before my b-day to.


there are some great poems on here ..
they have helped me alot.
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Smita » Tue Aug 01, 2006 6:00 am

Debbie,
Sending out biig hugs to you..Thats all i can say since words dont help at all.. :(

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thankyou

Postby kdc2006 » Tue Aug 01, 2006 9:13 am

smita and ogr1............thankyou so much for posting... once my neice is up to it,i will tell her about this web site so she can view for herself.... its been really hard and i have felt a bit awkward because my happiness goes on and just feel totally for her.....
my sister,debbie's mum, also lost a son at birth,debbie's brother so its like history repeating itself...

thanks again girls.....its really appreciated.....

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Postby DolceVita » Sat Aug 05, 2006 4:37 pm

Oh Kareen,

I just saw this thread for the first time. What a painful time this must be for your niece and all of her family involved. I just pray that GOD will fill her hollow with another healthy baby soon. I know the lost baby could not be replaced, but hopefully another child will bring her happiness one day again... She is young and this must feel like the end of the world for her or anyone in her shoes. I hope God grants her peace and serenity in the days to come.

So sad, I'm so sorry for your families loss.
With Gods Blessings BFP!

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Postby DolceVita » Sat Aug 05, 2006 4:38 pm

Oh Kareen,

I just saw this thread for the first time. What a painful time this must be for your niece and all of her family involved. I just pray that GOD will fill her hollow with another healthy baby soon. I know the lost baby could not be replaced, but hopefully another child will bring her happiness one day again... She is young and this must feel like the end of the world for her or anyone in her shoes. I hope God grants her peace and serenity in the days to come.

So sad, I'm so sorry for your families loss.
With Gods Blessings BFP!

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Postby Dory » Sat Aug 05, 2006 4:58 pm

I was given this when i lost my son Kieran.......

AN ANGEL NEVER DIES

Don't let them say i wasn't born that something stopped my heart,
I felt each tender squeeze you gave, I've loved you from the start.
Although my body you can't hold, doesn't mean i'm gone.,
This world was worthy, not for me, God choose that i move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul, what you are forced to face,
You have my word, i'll fill your arms, someday we will embrace.
You'll hear that it was "mean't to be, god doesn't make mistakes"
But that won't soften your worse blow, or make your heart not ache.
I'm watching over all you do, another child your bear,
Believe me when i say to you, that i am always there.
There'll come a time, i promise you, when you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face, and kiss my lips, and then you'll understand.
Although i've never breathed your air, or gazed into your eyes,
That doesn't mean i never "WAS"
AN ANGEL NEVER DIES............



I'm so sorry for your nieces & Dh's lose.
No words can make it better, but i hope that this helps....

(((hugs)))
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thanks

Postby kdc2006 » Mon Aug 07, 2006 9:59 am

vita....thankyou.....xxx

rachel(dory)....what a lovely poem....so touching....i will print it off or email her this website....im sure once she reads....she will know.

thanks...kareenxxx

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