Hi -
My husband (he's 41) and I married about a year and a half ago and started trying to have kids a year ago (neither of us have children). We just finished our first IVF/ICSI cycle and go in for our pregnancy test next Wednesday. We have so much against us - our ages, male-factor infertility, polyps & scar tissue (since removed) on my side of things....
Beyond the above, I have bipolar disorder and have been on medication for it for about 7 years. When we approached IVF the first thing I tried to do was to wean - carefully - off the medication, but my bipolar symptoms immediately escalated. I am on what are considered to be very low doses of Lamictal (100mg/day) and Seroquel (50mg/day), but I'm very very worried about exposing our baby to these drugs. On the other hand, I can't be a good Mom if my illness is out of control.
The very biggest shame and concern I have though is that I smoke. I've smoked since I was ten years old and have never been able to quit for any length of time (best I've done so far was about 7 days last summer). Had several false-starts with trying to quit for this IVF cycle but didn't get anywhere. It's as if I'm so very stressed out about being a good mother, trying to get pregnant, worrying about the medication, wanting to be a great partner to my fabulously supportive husband... as if all of my energy and strength is being zapped by my stress and fears, and I can't seem to draw on it to quit smoking. I can't express how this weighs on me. I smoke up to a pack of ciggarettes a day.
We've been so lucky so far - to have found each other and married, to have a great doctor/clinic in our area (not to mention very good insurance). This IVF cycle yielded 12 eggs and 6 embryos, 5 of which survived to day 3 and were transferred back home to us last Saturday.
I would love to meet someone else on this board who's dealing with both bipolar disorder and IVF, but am so grateful to have found a board with so much information, regardless.
Rachel