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Postby Eve » Fri Aug 16, 2002 7:36 am

Hi to all,<br><br>Was dearly hoping to join you girls over here, but have had our world shot to pieces.<br><br>After 5 years of fertility treatments and thousands of pounds, and 2 previous miscarriages we had our 8 week scan last Friday and their was not heartbeat. baby had just died. Went in hospital on Monday and had all removed. <br><br>Am finding this soooo hard. Hubby seems to be coping really well and doesn't want me to dwell on stuff!<br><br>After 3 consecutive miscarriages we now have to see a Professor before we can do anything else. Feel so cheated, like we were given our dream for a little while. We even saw its' heartbeat and now it has all been taken away again.<br><br>After the positive preg test hubby has kissed my tummy every day and night, telling our baby to hold on. Now he doesn't. We need a holiday but can't afford one as the next course of IVF will be another 3 grand. Feel very small and lost. Friends and family try to help but no-one knows what to say do they?<br><br>Am I being punished, I can't think of anything I have ever done wrong, all I want is something goood. Some good news, anything.<br><br>Sorry to sound so crushed.<br><br>Goodluck to all you lovely ladies, and your beautiful bumps.<br><br>Bye for now.<br>Love Eve
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Postby Sally » Fri Aug 16, 2002 10:20 am

To Dear Eve,<br><br>I have posted a note to you on the old board, but wanted to write again and say how sorry I am to hear your news. Your message made me cry, and I wish I could give you a great big hug and take away your pain. I know it won't help but I am thinking of you and Hubby, and sending you positive thoughts ....please give yourselves time to get over this. <br>We are all here for you, keep in touch..<br>Love Sally xxx
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Postby mao » Fri Aug 16, 2002 4:57 pm

Eve,<br><br>My heart just dropped reading your mail!<br><br>My DH and I are so, so, sorry for what's happened to you and having been there (miscarriage) before, find that there are absolutely no words that we can say right now to make you feel better. However, you are in our prayers and I hope you both find happiness soon.<br><br>No, what a cruel world!!!!<br><br>mao
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Postby Barbs » Fri Aug 16, 2002 5:48 pm

Hello Eve<br><br>I haven't spoke to you before but my heart goes out to you and your husband. <br>I had a miscarriage three years ago at 11 weeks and discovered at an ultrasound that our baby was no more.<br>I know how you both must be feeling and there are no words that make it any easier.<br>Please don't think you are being punished. No-one deserves that.<br>My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.<br><br>Love Barbsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Postby Dee » Sun Aug 18, 2002 4:45 pm

Eve<br><br>So terribly sorry to hear your news. What you have experienced is just the worst nightmare of everyone on this board. I can't imagine how gutted you must feel. I am sure your hubby feels just as gutted - men just try to deal with things in a different way. <br><br>I wish you all the luck in the world for your next attempt.<br><br>Love<br>Dee xxx.
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Postby maggie » Mon Aug 19, 2002 8:50 pm

Eve,<br><br>Like sally, I posted you a message on the old board but just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts. <br><br>I don't think there is anything more that I can say to help so I won't, but I would like to send you a big hug.<br><br>Love Maggie.xx
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