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Postby ogr1 » Fri Sep 05, 2003 5:33 pm

i sure set myself up.<br>i thought i knew that i wasnt .<br>i had like morning sickness.<br> then i was starving.i just wanted good food. like i did when i was pregnant.<br> then i hadnt had my period.<br><br>i didnt realy relize it, but my period just started , and i was really hurt.<br> i geuss i had hoped that i could have another miracle.<br>it would have to be a huge mircale.wich i do know they happen. but i have no tubes, i am 39 and my dh doesnt have super sperm.<br><br>to top the rest off i get the mail and someone sent me the most wonderful baby calender/scrape book.<br><br>
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Lorraine » Fri Sep 05, 2003 5:47 pm

Oh dear Becky......<br>Sometimes we want something sooooooo very much we cant help but hold onto the chance of a miracle. I'm not ruling them out ...... I would quite like one myself but ..... like you say the fallout really hurts. <br>What a miserable time for you, isn't it horrible how our bodies and minds play such terrible tricks. I have just had my first period (almost 2 months after cycle failed) and just the memory of what that meant last time was haunting.<br>Remember you are an incredibly strong resilient woman who inspires and motivates myself and others with how you have coped with such a terrible ordeal. <br>I am not sure what else to say to you - but you are in my thoughts.<br>Lots of love<br>Lorraine<br>xxxx
Married to my darling husband for almost 8 years - ttc for same.
Me - severe PCOS & Hubby - low sperm/poor morphology/antibodies.
Usual investigations/drug Tx then 3 IVF cycles - all negative.
Have chosen not to have any further Tx.
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Postby ogr1 » Sat Sep 06, 2003 1:10 am

thanks for the words. they do mean alot..<br> i am ok. things just kid of come and go.i think that the feelings are always right there. just need to learn to deal with it and accept.<br> <br>becky
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Postby Loonpants » Sat Sep 06, 2003 1:55 pm

Becky<br><br>Just wanted to send you a hug ((((((((((((((becky))))))))))))))). I know exactly how you feel cause I have done the same on numerous occasions. It is so cruel that the body reacts the same when due on as when first pregnant. We had a miracle last Christmas but it was not meant to be and now I hope for another one some day. Hubby is away, so not in the near future otherwise I may have questions to answer!!!<br><br>Keep being the wonderful supportive person you are and lean on us when you need support.<br><br>Love<br><br>Lisa(Loonpants)<br>xxx<br>
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Postby caz1 » Sat Sep 06, 2003 5:19 pm

HI there<br>gosh - I feel your pain! My af what nearly 2 weeks later after failed tmt in June (with you Lorraine - how are you by the way?). I was really beginning to think....maybe? But then af came, of course.<br><br>Well its back to the drawing board for us - will try tmt again in Jan I think/ hope<br><br>take care all<br><br>Cazx<br><br>ps - becky, do you mind me asking....am I right in thinking you have a compromised cervix?? If so, you might be interested....There was a article on Brook Sheilds in a mag last week , after 2 or 3 IVFs and I think 1 miscarriage she has just had a beautiful baby thru IVF. ANyway - even the "beautiful" people have it tough too. Just thought I'd let you know, that miracles DO happen!<br><br>Cazx
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Postby Grace » Sat Sep 06, 2003 5:45 pm

Hello becky<br><br>like the other girls I am really sorry you have been through this.<br><br>Last Christmas I thought by some miracle had conceived as was two weeks late and am never late. I would n't even do a test as I liked living with that little bit of hope (how sad is that!!)<br><br>I remember decorating the Christmas tree and putting this tiny little teddy bear on it and thinking this time next year I might have a baby. I think I almost drove myself mad, I think I did go mad in fact.<br>We are all thinking of you. Keep hanging in there and keep writing.<br>Love Gracexx<br>
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