Obviously it would be hard work having two so close together, but is that such a bad thing? There are loads of marvellous women on here with twins and triplets...who manage and are totally exhausted and frazzled but are overwhelmed with love....why should it be any tougher than that?
As for age, my
DH is 54 yrs and we would possibly consider another in a few years time, we are not mega rich, in fact we just get by at the moment, I think the amount of love he gives our little girl far out weighs any 'possibility' of not being around when she is older. At any age there are no guarantees in life, some people die young , some old its what we do with our life while we are here that counts.....
So therefore the issue is really would a 2nd baby fill your life more and make it more complete...or do you have all the love you need in your one lovely child.
Good luck with your decision
Mandy
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