by Kate350 » Thu Jan 15, 2009 10:18 pm
Couldn't agree more. Especially with karenvancouverisland. "Just try to adopt, that way you will get pregnant, it happened to my sister in law"
You know, I'm new to all of this, we found out about a month ago that my hubby had moderate male factor. I'm still completing my ovulation moniotring cycle, a few funny things, but nothing to worry about yet.
Anyhow, I have told a few friends about it and they just don't get it. To their credit, they try, but what it comes down to is that if you havn't had this issue, you don't know what to say to make the infertile couple feel better....so, they stay stupid things like "are you sure you are timing your sex right?" That one was nice, dontcha think? I don't blame them for it, its not like they teach a class at high school on what to say when your best friend can't concieve.
So, I've decided not to talk about it anymore with my friends or anyone at work. I told my boss, but only because I had so many doctor's appointments, I didn't want her to think I was out interviewing!
I will tell my Mom and Sis all the updates, but that is only because I can tell them to get stuffed if they say something stupid.