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Postby Anaii » Tue Oct 13, 2009 7:33 pm

Hi I'm 38 years old 3mon ago got married and last week when i went to my doctor to see why I'm missing my period after the blood test he told me I'm in my menopausa now i don't know what should i do I'm thinking to get divorce bc i feel bad for my husband I don't think we can afford IVF or egg donation and I know he likes kids tell me please what should i do
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Postby sharishu » Wed Oct 21, 2009 12:17 pm

Do you love your husband? Does he love you? Do not get divorced if the answer is 'yes'. There are absolutely no guarantees in life. If you love eachother, you WILL find a way to have the family you both dream of. There are all sorts of programs available. Research it with your health plan, so you can make an informed decision. Also, get a second opinion about your 'menopause' status please!

Lots of luck, and congrats on your wedding! All the best!

Shari
Damaged Tubes; 1st IVF- BFN; 2nd IVF-BFP, our precious son :); 3rd IVF stopped due to natural miracle BFP, then mc@8 wks.; 4th IVF: June '11- BFN :( Bring On IVF#4!

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