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Lost our IVF baby

Postby Baylee308 » Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:50 am

Hello, I'm new to this website and it has been a Godsend. We found out last week at our 8 week ultrasound that our baby had no hearbeat. We were heartbroken, seeing that just 2 weeks earlier he had a strong heatrbeat. It's been a week since I had my D&C and everyday is better. The emotional pain is still there, and probaby will never go away. I feel your pain and heartache to all of you who have went through this same thing. We lost our baby, and nothing can change that. God give us strength!
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Postby starwishes » Fri Jan 29, 2010 8:07 am

Hi Baylee,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you can get strength you need from the love of all those around you.
Me- 35
'unexplained infertility'
TTC - 3 1/2 years
5 failed IUI attempts
IVF #1 July '09 - BFP m/c 6 weeks
IVF #2 Dec '09 - BFP m/c 9 weeks
FET Oct '10 - BFN
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Location: london

Postby Hope644 » Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:05 am

Hi Baylee -

I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. I can relate to your pain. Our 2nd IVF resulted in BFP in which we saw the heartbeat at 6 weeks, beating strong - only to discover 2 weeks later, no heartbeat at all. :( It is devistating. My heart breaks for you as I read your post.

Missed miscarriage and regular miscarriages are terribly difficult to deal with. It's such a hidden pain. Either the world doesn't know, and we certainly don't want to share - or when they do know - they expect us to bounce right back like a bad hair day or something.

Anyway, I just wanted to say I am sorry. I hope that you find comfort and peace.

IVF 1st-BFN, 2nd-BFP mc 8wk,
3rd IVF-BFP!
4th IVF-BFP!
5 snowbabies on ice
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