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Postby Tracey S » Sat May 01, 2004 5:02 pm

Dagny

OMG - can't believe it with you - never rains............ poor you and DAvid - honestly. I missed you loads and kept looking out for your posts!
Great news all round - Nik's are soooooooo cute - can't wait to see them but feeling a right lard arse at the moment. Will be here as always for you when you start if you need me - you know that and won't take offence if you just go off and do it!
Loads of love and hugs
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Postby Dagny » Mon May 03, 2004 1:39 pm

Hi Tracey

I am not in a good mood today. I went to a family Christening yesterday (DH's step brother and his wife's baby boy). They kept on saying before the day that they fully understand if we don't come etc, etc and then we got about 5 phone calls saying "we need to know if you are coming as there is a seating plan"! So much for just letting us see how we feel on the morning :x Who the hell has a seating bloody plan at a Christening anyway???

The worst bit was my step sister in law came over and said "You are so brave to come and as you know I can't have anymore children but at least you can try again"!!! :shock: That is supposed to make me feel better about Katelyn dying is it?? She really hasn't got a clue which surprises me as her baby was born at 26eeks and they nearly lost him on a number of occasions. She has had 3 miscarriages too and had a terrible pregnancy. I could have sceamed :x

I am just having a bad day and needed to get it off my chest. I had a cry in the Church as well as they had written a letter to the baby and they read it out but it just reminded me of the letter I had written to Katelyn for her casket and it couldn't have been more different circumstances. They were rejoicing and I was mourning. Don't get me wrong as I am so happy for them especially as she has been told 'no more babies' and the baby is so gorgeous. No one should go through what we have been through but some sensitivity in their comments wouldn't go amiss. I am sure they just don't think before they speak.

Sorry for moaning :oops: It's pi$$ing it down here as well which makes me feel depressed considering how lovely it was yesterday. I would be 34 weeks this week. Can you believe it's been 10 weeks since she died this Thursday?

Hope you are having a better day and that your lovely girls are wiggling and kicking and growing nicely? I wonder how Sophie is doing? I expect she is enjoying having her sister and children staying keeping her mind of worrying.

Did you say you had a photo to send me??

Take care love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby Tracey S » Tue May 04, 2004 9:33 am

Oh poor you honey

I don't do Christenings well at the best of times but how awful. It seems only yesterday since KAtelyn died but then again forever and as for Oliver ....... just the same! He would be 3.5 months old now. I know your step sister in law has has a terrible time but I feel like you - surely they should have more sensitivity! It is like it flies out the window. I try and make sure I am not like that and you certainly won't be - kick me if I ever am!
Nothing on the Nikola front - presume she is manic - have some clothes to send her. I sent you photos loads of time and they bounced back - will send again! You are are a nightmare with photos - I mean it took you ages and I kept getting them for days (The same ones) when you were on hols.
Girls are a bit quieter -tend to move round more than kick now - like huge lumps shuffling and turning -very weird
Hope your day is better if not this flaming weather
Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Postby Dagny » Tue May 04, 2004 9:51 am

Good morning

I am still seething a bit but getting calmer. I get quite stressed with insensitive comments which isn't good for me I know but there you go.

I would expect Nikola is run ragged poor love. I bet she can't wait to have those little girlies home. I have got some ideas of what to get them but not managed to buy them yet. It's absolutely chucking it down here so I won't be shopping today.

I am sorry about the photos :roll: The ones I sent you kept on being bounced back as well, what are we like? What were the photos of that you tried to send? I got some a few weeks ago of Abbey and your wedding etc, were these different ones?

Sounds like your girls are practicing their dance routines :lol: for when they go clubbing :shock:

Take care love Dagny xkx :wink:
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby Tracey S » Wed May 05, 2004 3:51 pm

Dagny

Just popping over here to see how long it takes you to drag yourself away from Sally's diaries! :lol:

Where is Sophie - enjoying life I hope Sophie!
Love
Tracey
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ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Postby Dagny » Wed May 05, 2004 4:12 pm

Hi there Cheeky

Took me 20 mins!

I am off to have a shower now, been attempting to all day but put it off for more exciting things to do like reading Sally's Diary :roll:

What am I like????? But then again you aint much better :lol:

Yeah where IS Sophie?? She probably thinks we are all nutters :oops:

I wish it would stop bloody raining so I can go and see Katelyn's grave and be there for a bit without getting drenched :( The rabbits are still eating the flowers but I have put silk pink roses there now so they will have to find another mug to feed them. I have a tall vase for the fresh flowers and they don't seem to be able to reach them thankfully unless they knock it over.

Love Dagnyxkx :wink:
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby Tracey S » Thu May 06, 2004 3:35 pm

Dagny

What a wonderful idea about silk flowers - how lovely. Much better than my idea about carrots (no not silk carrots silly :roll: )

This weather drives me insane - honestly!

Agree with you about Sophie - probably does not want to go as mad as us :lol:
Take care
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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