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Postby ogr1 » Thu Jun 24, 2004 3:39 pm

we are building a knew shop and neeed to tear down the old barn.
so we need to go out and clean ouut the barn.
problem is is that back in the corner is all of our hopes and dreams.
strolers for twins and then for one.
a couple of cribs and alot of other things
dont know what to do.
i have some things in the house that are very dear to us, but i dont think that we are going to try and get pregnant again but
and that is where i am at.
i wish that we could just leave that side of the barn alone.

kids got on my computer and it is in the shop now.
so havent been on line. hopefuly it will be back today.

now i need to go play cath up.
i hope all is going for everyone
love bec
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Tracey S » Fri Jun 25, 2004 9:58 am

Bec

This is just so hard for you - poor you. Seems to me you have the following options:

Give them away to someone else so they can have them for their dreams
Keep them but in a different place
Keep some and put them with the things in the house that are special............

This demands an element of closure I know and I wish there is something I could do - thinking of you.....
Love
Tracey
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Postby Dagny » Sat Jun 26, 2004 10:03 am

Oh Becky

Poor you :( This must be so hard for you right now. I can't offer you any advice as I don't know what I would do in that situation either. It's just such a horrid decision for you to have to make.

I am thinking of you and I hope that whatever you decide it will be right.

Tracey is so good at advice and I am terrible - sorry.

Much love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby ogr1 » Sun Jun 27, 2004 7:12 am

wanted to say thank you to you both.
it is always nice to know that someone cares.
i may be holding on to the stuff for alittle while longer.
our oldest is going to get married in august !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i would be happy to be a grandma !
wow i geuss i am getting old.
dagny have you started a poll yet about nurses?
tracey how come you havent sent any knew photos?
you should do it now, soon you wont even have time to brush your
hair !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
love becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Dagny » Mon Jun 28, 2004 7:34 am

Oooooohhh Becky

A wedding, how lovely :D

Good idea to hang on to the stuff for a bit longer. You never know :wink: I just got the photo, this weekend you sent through from your reunion as you as a little girl. God know's why it took so long to come through :roll: It's a lovely photo of you all.

Hope you are well, 'speak' soon

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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