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Postby Angela37firsttimeivf » Fri Mar 30, 2012 8:41 am

I just had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. We were trying for baby 2. I am inconsolable. We have two eggs left, then due to us being over 40 and living in Germany, if we want to carry on, our insurance will no longer pay half. We used up our three attempts which blessed us with our son. If it just hadnt happened I think I would be more willing to accept it, but getting so close to it has made me want it all the more. I think we would also be too old to adopt now (at least a baby). Anyone else in a similar position? Isthere any point in carrying on or should we look at other options? After taking so long to be persuaded to try for a second with the remaining eggs, my husband wants to give up altogether. So I can't see any way forward at the moment anyway. But even though I know we need time to come to terms with it, it does help to be able to look at further options. But like I say, I can't talk to my husband about it at the moment..
Me and DH: 42

2006: 2 ectopics
2007-08: 2 IVFs, 4 FETs: all BFNs
approved for adoption
2009: IVF 3 - BFP!
Adam born 26 April 2010
5 frosties left
2012: FET - BFP! miscarriage at 8 weeks
2 remaining frosties didn't survive
Gearing up for foster care
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Joined: Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:51 am
Location: Germany

Re: close to end of line

Postby MamaBoo » Fri Mar 30, 2012 2:08 pm

Personally, I would try with the two remaining embies, and make a decision if that didn't work out. I only had two embies left when I tried for my second and I now have a second beautiful son. Good luck.
Me 34 endo, MTHFR, clotting issues
DH 47 semi-low morphology
TTC 6 yrs
3 IUI's all BFN
IVF#1: 10/08 BFP early MC
FET#1: 03/09 BFP
DS born 11/28/09
FET#2: 03/11
DS born 11/21/2011


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Re: close to end of line

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Re: close to end of line

Postby VirenPaul » Thu Jan 23, 2014 11:48 am

Just go for it.My wife has also gone through same situation and now we are blessed with a beautiful girl so your decision is right.Step forward!!!!.Good luck.
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