Here we go again. Ghost or anyone plz help

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hopeful356
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Here we go again. Ghost or anyone plz help

Post by hopeful356 » Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:44 pm

Here we go again. Ghost or anyone plz help
by hopeful356 » Mon Apr 02, 2012 1:53 pm

Had my 6wk 4 day scan today. 2 sacs both with yolk sacs one with " maybe" a fetal pole. No heartbeats. RE says he is worried. He said by now he should see more growth and a heartbeat. Why does this keep happening to me? I get so excited about being pregnant and just to be knocked down. Where is my happy ending? This is my 3rd fresh cycle, of 3day transfer 3 8cell embryos. My betas were great. It seems like there is no baby for me Please help
Me 38yrs old Dh 35yrs old both no health issues
1st IVF BFP m/c 7wks
FET BFN
2nd fresh IVF transfer 3 (3day) BFN
Me 38yrs old Dh 35yrs old both no health issues
1st IVF BFP m/c 7wks
FET BFN
2nd fresh IVF transfer 3 (3day) BFN :(

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to_have_fun08
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Post by to_have_fun08 » Mon Apr 02, 2012 8:01 pm

Sorry Hopeful.. sending lots of ((HUGS)). Ya never know what might happen, you still might see a HB on your next U/S.

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Post by MamaBoo » Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:53 am

I hope that you end up pleasantly surprised. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

Have you had genetic tests done for you and DH?
Me 34 endo, MTHFR, clotting issues
DH 47 semi-low morphology
TTC 6 yrs
3 IUI's all BFN
IVF#1: 10/08 BFP early MC
FET#1: 03/09 BFP
DS born 11/28/09
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Post by leorira11 » Tue Apr 03, 2012 11:13 am

I'm so sorry. There is still a smidgen of hope, and I hope you get good news at your next scan.

This is your second m/c? Ask your doctor about doing RPL (repeat pregnancy loss) testing. Mostly, it's blood tests to make sure you don't have a clotting issue and physical exams of your reproductive organs to make sure there isn't anything physically wrong (a hysteroscopy, a HSG - usually IVFers have done those before). More serious testing includes full chromosomal work ups on you and DH to make sure there isn't anything being passed on.

Unfortunately, 2 miscarraiges is considered within normal expectations.

I really hope you get good news.
8 IVF+6 FET=6 BFN+8 BFP =

-b/g twins 22w (12.09)
-mc 10w (9.10)
-Micha (7.19-24.11) & Asaf (7.19-28.11) born at 24w
-mc 5wk (2.12)
-no HB at 18w (10.12)
-BO (4.13)-
-mc 6wk (9.13)

last attempt - donor sperm - baby girl born healthy July 2014

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Post by to_have_fun08 » Tue Apr 03, 2012 4:31 pm

A gal that i know didn't see anything but a empty sac on her 6+ week u/s. then went back a week later and saw everything including a HB. The second u/s was at another location with a better u/s monitor. like I said earlier, ya never know what might happen.

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Post by Ghost » Wed Apr 04, 2012 1:06 am

hopeful356 wrote:Here we go again. Ghost or anyone plz help
by hopeful356 » Mon Apr 02, 2012 1:53 pm

Had my 6wk 4 day scan today. 2 sacs both with yolk sacs one with " maybe" a fetal pole. No heartbeats. RE says he is worried. He said by now he should see more growth and a heartbeat. Why does this keep happening to me? I get so excited about being pregnant and just to be knocked down. Where is my happy ending? This is my 3rd fresh cycle, of 3day transfer 3 8cell embryos. My betas were great. It seems like there is no baby for me Please help
Me 38yrs old Dh 35yrs old both no health issues
1st IVF BFP m/c 7wks
FET BFN
2nd fresh IVF transfer 3 (3day) BFN
Sorry to hear this. They do usually show up by now.

does he/she plan to do another scan?
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hopeful356
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Post by hopeful356 » Thu Apr 05, 2012 1:23 pm

Did another scan today at 7wks. Measured about a week behind and found heartbeat of 77. RE says not to have too high hopes :( But all i can do is hope. Could it be possible our baby is just a late bloomer? Anyone had experience with this? Thank you for your input.
Me 38yrs old Dh 35yrs old both no health issues
1st IVF BFP m/c 7wks
FET BFN
2nd fresh IVF transfer 3 (3day) BFN :(

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Post by Ghost » Thu Apr 05, 2012 2:25 pm

hopeful356 wrote:Did another scan today at 7wks. Measured about a week behind and found heartbeat of 77. RE says not to have too high hopes :( But all i can do is hope. Could it be possible our baby is just a late bloomer? Anyone had experience with this? Thank you for your input.
Your RE knows what he's talking about. Let's hope yours will beat the odds. Good luck.
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Post by brit1612 » Thu Apr 05, 2012 6:02 pm

Hope you have a little miracle. We had a similar situation and it did not end well. Just wanted to tell you that we went through three early miscarriages and still went on to have a healthy baby. Just wanted to let you know that you can go on to have a healthy baby. Hope this is the one! Sorry you are having to go through this.
After 7 attempts (2 negatives/3 miscarriages), we have TWO miracle boys!! If you would like to hear our story, please visit http://www.ivfsuccessstories.info. Never give up, it can happen for you!!

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Post by sunshine.12 » Fri Apr 06, 2012 12:50 am

keeping my fingers crossed for you.

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