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Should you have a friend or someone you pay as a surrogate?

Postby Kitty23 » Wed Jun 27, 2012 12:56 am

I live in a state in the US where paying someone to rent their womb IS legal, yet have a friend who is 32 who volunteered to be our surrogate. I'm not sure if I should have it be more of a business transaction or take the friend up on her most generous and kind offer? This is a very complex situation...does anyone have any personal experiences or advice? Many thanks!
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Re: Should you have a friend or someone you pay as a surroga

Postby Ambit_Energy » Thu Jun 28, 2012 8:30 pm

The surrogates must receive the full amount for their surrogacy, the clinic taking nothing at all. In addition, while Clinic helps counsel the surrogates on money matters, don't expect a single dollars of it nor would we take any. This service is for their benefit, as well as those of valued patients. It is a win-win situation and it will consider themselves blessed to be able to fulfill people’s dreams.



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Re: Should you have a friend or someone you pay as a surroga

Postby woodyanita » Fri Oct 05, 2012 1:32 pm

Its not necessary to have a friend. Their should be a legal contract binding surrogate and intended parents. Everything related to the terms of payment, cost of surrogate mother, custody of the child after birth and all relevant documents need to be prepared. The problem may arise in absence of any legal paper work and there may be unwanted emotional trauma later on. Get the advice at http://www.iwannagetpregnant.com/index. ... Itemid=194
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