Christie,suzyq wrote:I am at a total loss today. Went in for my first OB appt today. Could not find a heartbeat. U/S showed no HB and baby had expired. Just sick to death. I would have never thought this possible this time. I waited hours before calling DH because I just did not know how to break it to him. Now I have to decide between D&C or Cytotec pills. I am going back to my RE as soon as they can get me in. Just do not want to do this at OB's office. Not sure I can ever walk in there again. Any advice ladies? I am a wreck.
I'm so sorry! I just felt so relieved once you heard the HB! I don't know which is better nor what to say to your DH. Nothing I say can take away your pain and I wish I could! You are in my heart deeply! I sit here and complain, whine, worry and haven't even heard a heartbeat yet sulking in my dispair of problems with my DH and clinged to you for your knowledge and support and now I have nothing to offer in return due to my lack of IVF HELL AND LACK OF KNOWLEDGE! I know you don't know me personally but my heart aches for you and I love you!