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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby beth_brown » Fri Jul 14, 2017 8:36 am

Great to your post. We are looking for surrogacy too, and we hear BioTexCom in Ukraine is supposed to be good. They offer various packages and offer 100% guarantee. If anyone here could share your experience with them please.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby JoeNoah » Fri Sep 15, 2017 2:07 pm

Hello, I am also for an advice here. I want to become a mother as soon as possible. As my in-laws are now forcing me for having a baby. I am 40 years old. I am trying for a baby right after one year of my marriage. The journey is full of pain and hardships. My husband is with me on this journey. He loves children too. I have conceived 3 times but with no end results. Since then I am trying. Surrogacy is my option also. It is a light in the darkness for me. Please Help me too.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby Ghost » Sat Sep 16, 2017 4:35 am

Many centers offer gestational surrogacy, where the intended parents embryo is transferred to the uterus of a gestational carrier. The success rates are high, similar to egg donor cycles, around 70-80% live birth per transfer at top clinics.

Classic surrogacy, where the birth mother is also the biological mother undergoing an IUI cycle, is not recommended. The success rates are low and the legal issues can be enormous. In one case in England, the surrogate kept the baby and then sued the intended parents to pay her child support, and she won. Avoid classic surrogacy.
Note: I am not an MD and not an expert.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby Rita10 » Mon Oct 23, 2017 7:32 pm

Hi, margirl. Your story is so touchy. I’m really sorry you had to go through such a difficult situation. There’s nothing more awful than losing a baby. It’s a huge stress for a woman. You have to be very strong to be over it. You know, you are not alone with your infertility problem. A lot of women around the world are suffering from this problem. I’m very glad that surrogacy is getting so popular. It’s a powerful solution for infertile couples. Unfortunately, the price is still too high. But, as for me, it is worth paying.
I can say from my experience that the surrogate isn’t allowed to keep the baby. First of all you will sign an agreement with the reproduction center. That is why you will need a lawyer. Secondly, this baby will be genetically related to your husband and you. The surrogate won’t be its biological mother. In the birth certificate you will be mentioned as biological parents.
My sister’s son was born by the surrogate. This is the reason why I know this information. I spent a lot of time with her during her surrogacy process. To say truth, she was very scared. I just can’t imagine her feelings. She had to deal with the woman, who was carrying her beby boy. That’s so unfair. She was crying when she saw her son for the first time. I will never forget her face. That day she became a mom.
By the way, if you choose all inclusive package in the reproduction center you will get a 100% result. They guarantee that you will go home with your baby. So, I wish you good luck.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby JennyKL2017 » Tue Nov 28, 2017 12:22 pm

Hello. I'm very sorry that you had to go through all those difficulties. Miscarriage is the worst thing, which can happen to a woman. You are very brave and I'm sure you will be fine. I'm glad that you decided to do something to become parents. A lot of women just give up.
Have you been thinking of adoption? My first son was adopted and I don't regret. He is a great kid.
Surrogacy is also a great idea. Our twin boys are 8 months old and they were born by the surrogate. There's nothing to be afraid of. Choose a good reproduction center and sign the contract. In this case the surrogate won't be able to keep the baby. You will be protected by the law.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby claudia » Mon Dec 18, 2017 5:49 am

Hey dear. Don't be afraid. Surrogacy is a good option to go for. All you need to do is find the right clinic. In clinics, they have policies. They have professional surrogate mothers. It's their jobs. They can't refuse to handover the baby to you. They are getting paid for this.
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Re: Surrogate is my option

Postby erikapaul » Mon Dec 18, 2017 8:54 am

Hi there, how are you. Well you can say that it's really devastating time. It really is hard. My friend bear the same that is why I know that. Well it is going to happen for you just try. All other variants are there you'll get pregnant soon.
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