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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby nancy2017 » Tue Jul 25, 2017 8:17 pm

Hi, dear. So terrible and so sorry... Try to leave your fears and understand that each problem could be solved. Infertility isn't the end! Just know, you're not alone here. We all are a little doubt and scared. When my friend went through it, I was so worried about her... Seemed like she didn't want to fight anymore. But with a great support and with great efforts she found a way... There are many places where you can be cured, just find the place for you. It's very hard, but know, it's temporary. All troubles will go away soon, just keep this thought. Best of luck for you, sweety
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby MiaLucas » Thu Sep 21, 2017 3:22 pm

Oh dear, lots of hugs and kisses for you. It seems that you are not native from your writings. A baby is very important for sure. This is the reason every couple tried this after marriage. Do not worry and just keep yourself calm. You can go for the option of surrogacy. I have also wasted a lot of time on planning for surrogacy. After trying every fertility treatment. I became tired now. My husband loves children. He wants a lot of children. Now we are going for surrogacy. I am too much excited.
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby Ressia » Mon Oct 02, 2017 5:42 am

Hello, Agileprincess! I understand your situation but I think you should not think that you are alone. There is always a solution to every problem. Every burden we bear has endings. I just want to tell you that you do not need to be sad. There are solutions to it like IVF. Try to consult about it.
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby Rita10 » Tue Nov 07, 2017 9:24 pm

Hello, dear. I feel that you are extremely frustrated. You have to calm down. You should stop torturing yourself. Life is too short to be so stressed out. You will become mother, I’m sure. You just have to wait a little bit. There are a lot of infertile women around the world. My sister is one of them. We all don’t know why it happened to her. She is just unable to conceive. Our mother didn’t have such problems. I already have two kids. And I’m expecting again. Unfortunately, my sister wasn’t that lucky. But surrogacy helped her. She is a mother of twin boys now. We were all surprised to hear that she decided to go for the surrogacy. But she did it and she succeeded. I have no words to explain how happy I am. Her boys are so great. I would never say that she didn’t give birth to them. They look exactly like her husband. They all are genetically related. As for me it is very important. This is the main reason why she didn’t want to adopt.
Have you already visited the fertility specialist? If you have a chance to get pregnant you can try the IVF. In this case you will give birth on your own. I’m sure you will find the best solution, dear. Just don’t give up.
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby JennyKL2017 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 10:35 pm

Dear, I'm so sorry. Women are so brave and strong. I want you to keep trying. I'm sure you will find the way out. I was in the same boat. I was fighting the infertility for 4 years. I tried a lot of treatments and even IVF. My husband desperately wanted to have kids and we adopted. Our son is 6 now and he is great. To say more, we have 3 kids at the moment. 8 months ago our twin boys were born by the surrogate. I am a mother of 3 boys, can you imagine?! My husband is the happiest man ever. I am very glad that we found the way to fight the infertility. I'm sure you will also succeed soon.
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby Ghost » Tue Nov 28, 2017 6:15 pm

JennyKL2017 wrote:...we have 3 kids at the moment. 8 months ago our twin boys were born by the surrogate...


Surrogacy is very expensive.

I hope your twins are healthy. Today, a twin pregnancy is generally considered a poor outcome because of the many added risks.
Note: I am not an MD and not an expert.
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Re: Another day, another fight...

Postby Estellla » Mon Dec 04, 2017 11:14 pm

I feel your pain. I’m so angry at my friends for getting pregnant without trying then feeling like a horrible person for doing it. For me the hardest thing about infertility is that no one can ever understand what you are going through. Unless they have been there themselves. And maybe this sounds terrible but I don’t like hanging out with our pregnant friends anymore. All they do is talking about childbirth, children and how it’s exhausting for them to be pregnant. This makes me depressed. I am happy for them, but sometimes it’s too hard.
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