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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby ayesha10 » Fri Nov 17, 2017 12:57 pm

Hi, it's so brave of you to share your story. Millions of couple undergo this procedure and they are having a happy family life. There is nothing to worry about. I know a clinic who deals in many cases like these every year. My best friend visited there. I hope this will work for you too. 
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby ayesha10 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 4:29 am

Hi Miranda, having such thoughts is normal. I also felt the same way before I went for my IVF with donor eggs treatment. The baby will be of your husband genetically. Mostly, babies will look like their fathers in such cases. You can also discuss your concerns with doctors. In my case, they couldn't retrieve my eggs. The only option I had was donor eggs. I was a bit hesitant but I really can do anything to have my first child. I have been TTC for so many years. About the love thing - if you keep the baby in your womb for so many months, there is no way you won't feel for it. You will develop emotions during your period of pregnancy. I'm 32 weeks pregnant now. Baby may come out any time now. I can't wait to hold him (it's a baby boy). Oh, and the process of donor eggs is kept a secret by most of the clinics. You can also ask them to do that. There won't be any problem if they don't tell anyone. Most of the parents don't tell their babies that they used IVF to give them a birth. You can do the same. Clinic: the clinic where I had my IVF treatment is in Europe (Ukraine). If you are interested in visiting them, let me know and I'll provide you more details.
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby Ghost » Sat Nov 18, 2017 6:28 am

ayesha10 wrote:Oh, and the process of donor eggs is kept a secret by most of the clinics.


Egg donor cycles are routinely recommended to women who have zero chance or near zero chance with their own eggs, or to same-sex male couples. Not much of a secret.
Note: I am not an MD and not an expert.
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby diana001 » Tue Nov 21, 2017 2:23 pm

Hello Miranda,

It's worth looking onto surrogacyinfo. They're dealing with egg donation and surrogacy processes, so that we got interested. Also there's a plenty of things they offer to their intended patients. They had a free consultation with the patient coordinator. They explained us the process and shared their own family story which made you cry.

Happy to Help :)
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby Millia » Wed Nov 29, 2017 11:25 pm

This is so great such thread exists! I really needed to hear de success stories. I'm more and more convinced I should go for this option. I've just started my research. So I didn't decide yet where we'll have ivf. I still need to find lots of info before we start this journey. But I'm so happy I came on this forum. All of you girls helped a lot! Thank you so much and good luck!
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby Estellla » Mon Dec 04, 2017 11:23 pm

Even after menopause women try to have a baby. There is always an option of using donor eggs. Thanks to this way of treatment they get pregnant and give birth. Yes, chances to conceive decrease with years but that percentage is really small. Especially considering the fact that in nowadays society women tend to have babies after their 30s and 40s, because they want to make a career or save money for a baby or find a reliable man to build family with. Jilly, your age is perfect for ttc! So go for it!
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Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Postby Zarah » Tue Dec 12, 2017 11:21 am

Hi Miranda

I am sorry about what you had to suffer from. Its very tough to live without a child, when you want one. It's very heartbreaking & the worst feeling. I understand your concern, it is very natural. My sister had some health issues so she underwent IVF with donor eggs, she also feels the same way when she started her treatment. She was very confused in the starting days of her treatment. She was about to quit. But somehow, we managed to convince her, even when she was not fully ready. But as time passes, she started feeling the connection between her and her child. Afterall, the child belongs to her husband. She understands what it feels to be a mother and hold a baby in you for a period of 9 months. She automatically started falling for the child. Now, she is a mother of the cute baby girl, she is happy and enjoying her life with her baby and DH. So, don't think much, just start the treatment & things will start happen automatically. Good Luck for your future.
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