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need some suggestion?

Postby riley129 » Tue Dec 19, 2017 4:12 am

Hi there. I am 43 years old. I recently got a divorce. I wanted to have a child. My ex-husband didn't. One thing led to another, and now we are no longer married. Now, long story short, I still want a child. What are my options? I have a low ovarian reserve too. The doctors say that is expected at my age. I get that. So, should I opt for a donor? Alternately, are there any meds I could use to boost the ovarian reserve? Normally, I wouldn't mind using a donor. However, given my current circumstances, I'm a little opposed to it. Now, I will need to use a sperm donor too. So, I was hoping that at least I would be genetically connected to my child.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby Ghost » Tue Dec 19, 2017 5:12 am

riley129 wrote:Hi there. I am 43 years old. I recently got a divorce. I wanted to have a child. My ex-husband didn't. One thing led to another, and now we are no longer married. Now, long story short, I still want a child. What are my options? I have a low ovarian reserve too. The doctors say that is expected at my age. I get that. So, should I opt for a donor? Alternately, are there any meds I could use to boost the ovarian reserve? Normally, I wouldn't mind using a donor. However, given my current circumstances, I'm a little opposed to it. Now, I will need to use a sperm donor too. So, I was hoping that at least I would be genetically connected to my child.


There are no practical medications or methods to boost ovarian reserve. The only known class of hormones that might do so would be considered unsafe and are not used, as these hormones are expected to increase cancer risk.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby erikapaul » Wed Jan 10, 2018 6:38 pm

Well hi dear. I hope you are fine. your only chance is adoption now. Try to adopt dear. Put your application under the single parent section in adoption agency. They'll cintact you. They'll visit you and than you'll be on official list and got child than. Don't worry It could happend to anyone. Please be aware of that make good impression in front of them. That's it. best of luck dear.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby riley129 » Thu Jan 11, 2018 7:26 pm

You can find sperm donor easily in Ukraine. They provide you complete details and information. In that clinic you have many options for donor. You can select by yourself what kind of qualities you want in your baby. I think you should go for this because you need a baby in your life to get stable. It's very important for you. Best of luck.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby Ghost » Thu Jan 11, 2018 9:14 pm

riley129 wrote:You can find sperm donor easily in Ukraine. They provide you complete details and information. In that clinic you have many options for donor. You can select by yourself what kind of qualities you want in your baby. I think you should go for this because you need a baby in your life to get stable. It's very important for you. Best of luck.


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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby tatebrown » Thu Jan 18, 2018 9:25 pm

Hi Riley. it can be a hard decision to use the donor eggs, many women have double thought – like the child will be not mine genetically, what would people say. I, myself had the same questions at the beginning of my surrogacy trip.Right now I’m on my way to be a mother, I had my first attempt at biotexcom clinic, we sign the surrogacy contract on donor eggs and I don’t have any second thoughts. The donor we choose doesn’t look like me or my husband but it doesn’t matter for us, the most important is a baby health. I know I will love my baby more than anything in the worldIts really appreciating BiotexCom offers surrogacy, donation eggs, IVF etc that are very helpful for all infertile couples. It is good to explain all the financial and legal aspects. As you are providing the number of options for people at very affordable packages it is very beneficial.best of luck Riley.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby Ghost » Fri Jan 19, 2018 1:40 am

Tatebrown is a fake. He or she advertises for a Ukrainian clinic by pretending to be a patient. He or she uses various sock accounts here.

Her story keeps changing because she forgets which lie she told under which sock account.

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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby lia » Wed Mar 28, 2018 11:09 am

If you want your own child there are a number of option available. Donor sperm, IVF, surrogacy are reproductive technologies if you can’t get pregnant, you can get it. For this, you need to consult with a fertility specialist. They will tell you which one is a better option for you. A poor response to ovarian stimulation drugs, low egg quality IVF are the main reasons why a woman might not achieve success with IVF. To boost up the ovaries they will suggest you the solutions.Poor ovaries quality can lead to miscarriage.I had also got the IVF because I have blocked fallopian tubes.Then IVF was suggested to me by the clinic that is biotexcom. After successful completion of treatment and some month later, I got pregnant. Moreover, surrogacy and adoption are also a good option for you. If you adopt a child or get the child through surrogacy, the child will genetically connect to you.Sometimes you can think, you have not given birth to that child, it can be difficult to manage later.For this, you need to prepare yourself emotionally and mentally.You can make the better decision as per your choice.Good Luck.
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Re: need some suggestion?

Postby rainymood » Wed May 02, 2018 9:39 am

From what I have read acupuncture could improve ovarian reserve, and some researches show that women with diminished ovarian reserve, who combine IVF with acupuncture, can expect the same chances of getting pregnant as women who undergo IVF and have normal ovarian reserve. I would advise to discuss with yr doc all possible options, as IVF with acupuncture, IVF PGS NGS and IVF DE.
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