Hi All,
My partner and I have been trying for a child for 9yrs now and after many tests, have been told that our infertility is unexplained. We were advised two yrs ago that "IUI" would prob be the best course of action.
A 2yr wait on the Uk NHS would have to be endured before this could be carried out. Being at the wrong end of 30, we decided to go private as we were lucky enough to have some savings. After the first attempt ending in failure, we took a couple months rest bite, a battery recharge as most will understand. On second procedure we were successful! On the weekend 2 weeks after insemmination took place, we did about 9 pregnancy tests as we just could not believe each poss result. We were overwhelmed with joy. An appointment to the Fert Clinic had been arranged for the Tues. After they conducted there own test, we were told that the "hGC" level was very low and we would have to return in 3 days. We arrived home and decided to carry out yet another test, this was negative as was another and another!!! To say we were gutted was a mild statement as it must be a feeling commonly shared by people in this community.
My partner to date has suffered no apparant mis-carriage that she can see, nor has she had a period, to date she has never missed one in her adult life. As no concrete answer has been given from doctors, we are at a loss as to what has happened???? Has anyone else been through this? and maybe help me understand??
I can't start to imagine how this is affecting my wife as she is going through it physically aswell as mentally, It is destroying me, though I have to appear strong for us both.
If I appear insensative or have caused offence to anyone in this, I apologise,
Kind Regards
Scott