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anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby jaime » Thu Jan 11, 2018 5:03 am

Hello ladies! I want to share my feelings with you. I have been married for five years. Since then I am ttc but no success. Many of my friends are married. They have their babies with them. I feel so distressed after seeing babies in their hands. It is not that I get jealous when I see babies in other hands. I like kids and I want every couple should have their kids. It strengthens their relationship. I know few people who have been longing for the baby. And after many months they have blessed also. I am not disappointed with nature. I do believe that there is some technology also which has advanced so much. I am not sure now that whether I should wait or go for some other option. Can anyone help me out in this situation? My husband is also willing to do anything for my happiness. TIA
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby Ghost » Thu Jan 11, 2018 5:16 am

jaime wrote:Hello ladies! I want to share my feelings with you. I have been married for five years. Since then I am ttc but no success. Many of my friends are married. They have their babies with them. I feel so distressed after seeing babies in their hands. It is not that I get jealous when I see babies in other hands. I like kids and I want every couple should have their kids. It strengthens their relationship. I know few people who have been longing for the baby. And after many months they have blessed also. I am not disappointed with nature. I do believe that there is some technology also which has advanced so much. I am not sure now that whether I should wait or go for some other option. Can anyone help me out in this situation? My husband is also willing to do anything for my happiness. TIA


On December 9 you posted your problem was coronary illness. 9 days later you said it was blocked tubes.

What will your Ukrainian boss pay you to post next?

Avoid Ukraine.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby lily_parker » Tue Feb 20, 2018 5:24 am

Really worst feeling for a woman to face infertility. I am also facing the same situation.But now I have decided to get the medical treatment. My neighbor has suggested me to get the IVF in that situation. They suggesting me to get the IVF from Ukraine because she has got the success from that clinic. If there is any other options tell me please, Cost is not mattered to me.
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby Ghost » Tue Feb 20, 2018 3:24 pm

Avoid IVF in Ukraine. Avoid surrogacy in Ukraine. Avoid any clinics that advertise deceptively.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby Vikky » Sat Feb 24, 2018 6:21 pm

I'm so sorry you faced such situation. Stress and sometimes "trying too hard to conceive" may actually play a role in up to 30% of all infertility problems. Stress can hamper ovulation. No amount of sperm will make a difference if the woman's body hasn't released an egg. The explanation of what happens in a woman's body when she is stressed begins in an organ the size of a chickpea on the lower side of our brain, the pituitary gland. A woman's body is involved in a constant monthly dance of hormones, for which ovulation is the biological grand finale. The pituitary gland has responsibility for ovulation. The pituitary communicates with the ovaries by sending hormones through the bloodstream – first hormones that cause the egg to mature, and then hormones that trigger ovulation. But when a woman is stressed, other hormones are released in the brain, which can bungle the hormone cycle. Dear, first of all you should visit your doctor. Both you and your husband should check your health. Also I think you should visit a psychologist, who will help you to find the reason of your stress. Even if your only way out is using eggs of a donor, you still have to carry a healthy pregnancy. You have to get rid of everything which bothers you or make you feel bad. I wish you best of luck! Hope to hear from you soon!
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby Sindy-March » Mon Mar 19, 2018 9:43 pm

Hello, dear. Do you know the reason of your infertility? Are you sure that there’s no chance for you to get pregnant? You should take all the necessary tests to know for sure. I believe you still have a chance to conceive. Anyway, you are right, medicine is very developed nowadays. Doctors are doing their best to help infertile couples. Such services as IVF and surrogacy are getting very popular. I’m sure you can use one of them. Well, there’s also such option as adoption. I’m sure you know it. So, it’s up to you. Anyway, you still have a chance to become a mother. And it is very important. Whatever you choose, it will change your life.
I recommend you to visit the reproduction center. Doctors will offer you the most appropriate solution. I’ve gone through 3 MCs and one stillbirth. That’s why I know how hard it is being infertile. You are a very strong woman. In my case I was advised to enter the surrogacy program. That’s how our baby was born. To say truth, I don’t regret. It was our only chance to get a baby and we did it. It took us 10 years to understand that we need help to become parents. I don’t want you to waste your time. Start doing something right away. Don’t lose your chance to change your life. I’m sure you will be a great mother. So, I wish you good luck whatever you choose. Don’t give up.
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Re: anyone help me out in this situation?

Postby xenia » Sun Mar 25, 2018 5:33 pm

I recommend you to visit the reproduction center. Doctors will offer you the most appropriate solution. I’ve gone through 3 MCs and one stillbirth. That’s why I know how hard it is being infertile. You are a very strong woman. In my case I was advised to enter the surrogacy program.
Have you checked out the reason why you experienced mcs? Have you discussed doing PGS NGS and karyotyping?
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