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Postby fiona_lk » Thu Oct 17, 2002 8:19 am

Hi all,<br><br>I said I'd post, so here I am.<br><br>Now remember, before I say the result of the home pgt, that this is a 2ww day 12 test - so I know not very accurate. My reasoning was if it was negative then I'd be forewarned about 'af surprise'.<br><br>Anyway, like woppa, my test was faintly positive. Hubs had a little weepy session (tears of joy, bless him) but I'm remaining a bit sceptical. I'm still feeling slightly nauseous, and I have a very directed on-and-off pain around the right side of my uterus (well, guessing it is the uterus) so that sceptisism is still one of hope as yet.<br><br>What do we put ourselves through, hey!<br><br>So off later to buy more tests.<br><br>Enjoy your weekend break woppa, and get back in touch as soon as you can. And I'm thinking about you too Jules.<br><br>Thanks for any good wishes and lots of love to everyone out there.<br><br><br>Fiona xxxx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
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Postby Charmaine » Thu Oct 17, 2002 8:40 am

Fiona,<br><br>Well a faint line is better than no line - Well done (I'll keep everything crossed for you). <br><br><br>Lots lof Love<br>Charmaine<br><br>[Edited by Charmaine on 17-Oct-02 09:40]
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Postby woppa » Thu Oct 17, 2002 9:18 am

Hi fiona,<br>GREAT NEWS !!! I really hope its good for you!!<br>I am very tearful this morning as I have started bleeding again. Phoned hosp and they said to stop worrying myself as it could have been withdrawel from the pessaries. Feeling very crampy too. <br>Done 4 tests in total and got another 3 to do !!!!! Surely 4 positives can't be wrong ???<br>I told them I had done "A" test and she said tut tut !!<br>just getting ready to go away to my parents. Its my dads retirement "do" on saturday.<br>will mail you all when I get back on sunday night<br>love<br>Elaine ( woppa)<br>xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Postby karenkirwan » Thu Oct 17, 2002 9:20 am

Fiona, you are such a comfort to everyone on this site and now its your quality time to take it easy and look forward to crossing the other side. I have my fingers crossed and even started saying my special prayers again. Thanks again for replying and like all the others girls say we are here for you.<br><br>Love Karen XX
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Postby tshepher » Thu Oct 17, 2002 10:48 am

Sending loads of positive vibes your way. Hang in there girlies !!!!
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Postby beck » Thu Oct 17, 2002 11:07 am

hello fiona<br>WAHOO WELL DONE.<br>hang in there this sound like it has worked!!<br>woppa you've done it to!!<br>jules your next sweetie!!<br>keep me posted<br>have a nice weekend<br>+++ vibes <br>beck xxxxxx
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Postby fiona_lk » Thu Oct 17, 2002 1:02 pm

Hi all,<br><br>Last trip to loo showed signs of bleeding so I'm in the same boat as woppa. After Charmaine's post, I'm not treating this as a complete failure yet, but not feeling as optimistic now. And went out for four pg tests at lunch too!<br><br><br>Fiona xx
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13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
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Postby Michelle » Thu Oct 17, 2002 1:17 pm

Fiona and Woppa<br>Sending you both lots of love and positive thoughts.<br>LOL<br>Michelle x
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Postby Charmaine » Thu Oct 17, 2002 1:45 pm

Fiona,<br><br>How heavy is the bleeding and sorry to be so graphic is it old blood (ie brown) or fresh?<br><br>Before the cervix closes shut for nine months it rids itself of anything unwanted - this could be blood (or in our cases the 2nd embryo). <br><br>Thinking of you <br>Charmaine<br>x<br><br><br>
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Postby fiona_lk » Thu Oct 17, 2002 2:24 pm

Hi Charmaine,<br><br>Its mostly brown with little hints of fresh red. Certainly isn't a downpour as yet - just wiping and its there. (Sorry, hope no-one offended by my reply being so graphic)<br><br>Thanks for the advise - I really do appeciate it.<br><br>Love<br><br>Fiona xx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
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Postby Charmaine » Thu Oct 17, 2002 2:47 pm

Fiona,<br><br>Right now I just want to give you a great big hug and say everything is going to be ok. All I know is that for the first 3 weeks after a +ve test I had bleeding and worried about it non stop. <br><br>Sending you hugs, kisses and lots of love <br>Charmaine<br>x<br><br><br>
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Postby bibby » Thu Oct 17, 2002 4:32 pm

Fiona<br><br>Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. I've been following your latest cycle (I sound like a stalker!), I'm in M/cr like you.<br><br>Anyhow, I'm thinking of you and keeping everything crossed.<br><br>Take care<br><br>bibby
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Postby Julie Martin » Thu Oct 17, 2002 6:53 pm

hi fiona,<br> i've just read your latest posts and like the other girls on this site im hoping everything going to be ok. Hang on in there girl, you always seem to know what to say to the rest of us. <br> Thinking positive vibes,<br> LOL Julie M xx
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Postby Julie Martin » Thu Oct 17, 2002 6:59 pm

Hi woppa,<br> Just a quick message to say hope your feeling ok, and have a great time away, i'll be thinking of you and keeping everything crossed. <br> Keep us posted,<br>Julie M x<br><br>[Edited by Julie Martin on 17-Oct-02 20:00]
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Postby fi » Thu Oct 17, 2002 9:37 pm

Hi Fiona<br><br>Just wanted to add in and say feeling for you, great that you have had the positives and just have everything crossed for you that its going to be shut down bleeding for the next 9months.<br><br>have a completely chilling weekend<br><br>look after dh!<br><br>Fi<br><br>XXX
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