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Postby ogr1 » Tue Feb 22, 2005 12:39 am

:D
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Jjj » Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:14 pm

Hi Becky, I have been busy working at the moment so havn't had time to even look in. I have loads to catch up on...... Sounds like you have been busy, hope you enjoyed your break, also you are a grandma :D I am sure you are busy knitting the hats and booties, ....... we have snow now, too cold for me :cry: I will catch up soon love Jjj x
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Postby ogr1 » Wed Feb 23, 2005 12:19 am

dont work to hard.....
we dont have any snow. we didnt get any snow to speak of this year...

things here have been going pretty good..
i am telling myself that being a grandma will be better...

i did make a blanket and take it to the kids when i was there..
but i kept having to put it out of my head that it should be for our baby..
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and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Jjj » Fri Feb 25, 2005 10:49 am

Hi Becky,

The snow has thawed now but it is still really cold. I know that some parts of the states are real warm at the moment. We have to wait for that here. Hopefully we will have a warmer summer this year.

It can't be easy for you at the moment, it is still hard to let go in our minds of what we may of had, or what we might be able to have. Infertility is always something pending, full of maybe's or maybe nots...... keeping yourself involved is good though I know you can still feel an emptiness inside. My husbands cousin is to have her second child in March and I find that hard as my mother in law rings me with the good news and i do not feel as happy as her. I feel really selfish at times when i feel like that, but i cannot help the way my feelings are at times.

You are an amazing person Becky, you have given so much love and support to your adoptive children and now the next generation begins, they will all love you. You have put love where none was felt before, that is a gift as not many people can truly express a feeling of real love.

:D keep in touch, take care love Jjj x
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Postby ogr1 » Fri Feb 25, 2005 4:28 pm

i still feal a huge part that we are to have a baby..
but i try and put my trust into heavenly father..
but i did go look and found some babies that need to be adopted. i thought thou that they where foster baby in the states and they arnt there from Central America.. i dont know how long or what that all would entail.
but there are so many of them ...
i shouldnt go looking at that stuff but some how i get drawn to it..
http://photolisting.adoption.com/17306.html.Central America
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and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby ogr1 » Sat Feb 26, 2005 4:39 am

forget that..
i just found out that it is about 25,000 to 30,000
to adopt :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Postby Traci » Sun Feb 27, 2005 9:56 am

Why so much!!!!!!!???????!!!!!!!
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
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Postby ogr1 » Sun Feb 27, 2005 12:40 pm

i dont know when i first started looking it was just for foster kids.
then when i got to infants i clicked on a coule of them and asked for info.. i had really started to get my hopes up..

thinking maybe this is what i should be doing..
all these babies are in orphanges.
it started off ok about 4,000 then it went up to attorney fees and that was 15,000 to 19,000
when i e-mailed the place they e-mailed me back saying it is about 25,000 to 30,000
is it that much over there?
if so then i can see why there is so many babies there..
its just very sad.. i could do another ivf for 30,000.
:x
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Postby Jjj » Tue Mar 01, 2005 11:12 pm

:D Hi Becky, some people like to make money out of infertility. I remember when I was looking on some of the the donor sites the $£ just kept mounting up for different things. But I always find the need to look, it does no harm, I always like to be informed. When I was in the states I read an article which was also featured on news9 about an organisation called Snowflakes. Have you heard of it? Basically it was formed a few years ago and it has available embryos to adopt which would otherwise have been destroyed. Not sure of their website but I keyed in snowflakes donor embryo usa and it led me to some info. I haven't read it in detail but I think it is genuine. Hope that is some help Becky, Jjj x
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Postby ogr1 » Tue Mar 01, 2005 11:42 pm

thank you..

but even before i could do an ivf i need to lose alot of weight, and i neeed to come up with the money for a surgery.. they want to take a skin graff and sew me up then do an ivf treatment.. ...
that why our baby couldnt come out again..

then we need to come up with the money for ivf all over again..

glad to see you back..
you have been on my mind
:D :D
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and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby ogr1 » Sat Apr 23, 2005 11:33 pm

jjj i was thinking of you :)
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Postby AliasR » Sat Apr 23, 2005 11:39 pm

you're getting very nostalgic Becky!
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Postby ogr1 » Sun Apr 24, 2005 4:15 am

i truley was thinking of jjj..

how are you holding up..
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Postby ogr1 » Mon Apr 25, 2005 12:10 am

what happenend to being happy :D :D :D :D :D
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Postby ogr1 » Mon Apr 25, 2005 6:59 am

i am happy my ticker is working again :)
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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