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Postby ogr1 » Mon Sep 06, 2004 10:46 pm

so sorry to here of your loss.
but it is great to hear of your 2 children that you have. that is great that they are all most 2.

hopefuly dagny will be back soon so she can add your children
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Tracey S » Fri Sep 17, 2004 8:29 am

Just wanted to add how sorry I am to hear of you loss and how you never forget. My twins are 6wks old now and last Friday was Oliver's one year anniversary. He is my number one child and always will be - they are precious number two and three.

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Tracey
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Postby Dagny » Tue Feb 08, 2005 9:08 pm

Angel Creche Rollcall

Name...............Birthday...............Mummy


Jack.................26th March 2001.......Sazzer
Rebecca...........26th March 2001......Sazzer
Christopher.......26th March 2001.....Sazzer
Bert..................30th Oct 2002..........Elaine
Jack..................24th May 2003.........Louise
Jannat..............16th Jan 2003.........Sophie
Moses................7th July 2003..........Becky
Thorfinn.............16th Aug 2003........Caroline
Cameron............14th Apr 2003........Elaine
Oliver...............10th Sept 2003........Tracey
Wallace.............28th Nov 2003........Elaine
Katelyn.............26th Feb 2004.........Dagny
Amy..................8th Mar 2004..........Caroline
Katie.................17th Mar 2004.........Anjela
Roxi..................21st May 2004.........Marie
Baby Barnett.......22nd Jan 2005.......Dagny
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby ogr1 » Wed Feb 09, 2005 6:45 am

i am so glad that you have doen this.. i didnt feel like anyone else should add the names ...

at some point i would like it if you could add my other children..
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby Dagny » Mon Feb 14, 2005 9:39 am

Hi Becky

I will gladly add your other children. I never liked to ask if you wanted them on there and so I have waited until you asked me. The list seems such a tragic loss to see all the names of our wonderful children but it's comforting to know that they are all together playing happily.

Either PM me or email me with their names and dates and I will put them on.

Hope you are well. I can see the picture of your Grand Daughters and they look gorgeous. I bet when you get to see them you will smother them with love. When are you coming to London?

Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
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Postby ogr1 » Mon Feb 14, 2005 8:21 pm

thank you dagny..
i have a resting spot for our sons but for our twins i dont know i dont know how to explain it..
i dont have them resting any where. i dont even know where they are. they sent them to be looked at to see what happend and we couldnt get them back. we where told that they where our son and daughter...

i need to try and figure something out....
i will get them to you maybe it will help having them on here...

and i will be so excited to go see them.. it is hard not to go now..
james has had to do alot of work but it is still hard to see babies i have alot of different feelings about it all.
and about london is it the best place to go to?
i was thinking next year buit i dont want to wait that long so maybe i could swing august....
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and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby TIABER » Fri May 13, 2005 2:07 am

Please add my twins Candice Arin and Jonah Kane to this play group. They were due Jan 2, 2006 and were born May 3 2005. My husband and I are devistated. We were only financially able to do IVF once. Please help us pray for healling. Thank you
Amber 28 hubbie 28, TTC 10 years, one 11 yrold son :),Staff infection at time of c-section caused PID, Tubes severly damaged, 1 temporarily sucsessful IVF cycle. babies heaven bound:
Candice Arin 5-3-05 & Jonah Kane 5-3-05
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Postby DeniseM » Sun May 15, 2005 4:57 pm

Hi Everyone.

I've been surfing around looking for a support group. Saturday was our second ultrasound after a successful IUI session. Unfortunately our little angel didn't develop, and so after 9 weeks of pregnancy I'm waiting around for the miscarriage I know is going to happen.

This is day 2 of having this information, and I can't seem to stop crying. I can't bear the thought of having to tell all my friends of this loss.

I thought we were finally through all this misery of not getting pregnant, but this is worse by far.

I never had the chance to get to know this little peanut growing inside, and now I never will.

Sydney - Dec 21/2005 Angel date May 14/2005

Denise
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Postby ogr1 » Mon May 16, 2005 3:37 am

to you both i am so sorry..

hopefuly dagny will be here and she can add your babies..

i to have had to do threw mc..
the first one 22 years ago...
in time your wond heals but you will always have the scar..
my last child we brought home and our son lays on our little island outside our back door..
it is just a small pond.. we had had a d&c with our twins and sent them to see why? and we couldnt get them back.. i regreat that so much..
my first one is in my home town..

at times i didnt think i was going to make it.. and i think that if it wasnt for some very close friends and dh and evereeryone here and heavenly father i wouldnt have made it..

i know give my self time to mourn for my children and the children that we will never have..
as the last one was our last one..
i have found laughter in my life but it has been hard..
please hang in there and give yourself time and talk open when you can and keep what you need to insidde..
i dont think that there is a time line.. or a wrong way or a right way threw any of this..
if thre is anything that i can do please let me know..
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby DeniseM » Sat May 28, 2005 9:57 pm

Dagny,

Could you add my baby to the roll? In my head I've named the baby Sydney, and my date of m/c was May 14/05.

Also, my friend lost a child several years ago, and named her Arella. Could you add her name too?

Thanks
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IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Postby sophiejane » Thu Jun 23, 2005 8:05 pm

Angel Creche Rollcall

Name...............Birthday...............Mummy


Jack.................26th March 2001.......Sazzer
Rebecca...........26th March 2001......Sazzer
Christopher.......26th March 2001.....Sazzer
Bert..................30th Oct 2002..........Elaine
Jack..................24th May 2003.........Louise
Jannat..............16th Jan 2003.........Sophie
Moses................7th July 2003..........Becky
Thorfinn.............16th Aug 2003........Caroline
Cameron............14th Apr 2003........Elaine
Oliver...............10th Sept 2003........Tracey
Wallace.............28th Nov 2003........Elaine
Katelyn.............26th Feb 2004.........Dagny
Amy..................8th Mar 2004..........Caroline
Katie.................17th Mar 2004.........Anjela
Roxi..................21st May 2004.........Marie
Baby Barnett.......22nd Jan 2005.......Dagny
Bubba................14th April 2005........Kelly
Sydney...............14th May 2005...........DeniseM
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
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Postby princess » Sat Jun 25, 2005 4:29 am

can you add Zachary,
that's what we called the baby, I was 7 weeks,
Baby would have been due 02/04/2006
thanks
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Postby taylorjools » Mon Jul 04, 2005 6:25 pm

I have just found the strength to come to this forum, and it has done me so much good to read all your messages. The power of love from women who have been through this shines from the page.

I want to give our little sweetie a name, but dh doesn't want to. I think he is so deeply sad, and also worried about me, that he wants to let things rest. he is being good talking about it, but also is very keen to move on.

Little sweetie was due 1st Feb 2006, she died on 20th June 2005. Like Becky they took her away and I don't know where she is. I want to have a service but dh isn't religious. I am going to see the pastor here for grievance counselling, maybe he can help me. I am more sad than I ever was. This is not like the depression I had (that was due to burn out) this is just deep sadness. You are all amazing, thank you for being there.

LOve to you all and all your little ones

BigJ
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Postby DeniseM » Mon Jul 04, 2005 7:09 pm

Big J, if you need to name your baby, if only in your head, do so. I named Sydney and afterwards told DH. Name or no name your little sweetie will always be in your heart. That's where Sydney lives now.

It gets easier with time, but it doesn't go away. My first baby will always be Sydney.

I hope councelling helps for you, and I hope you feel welcome here.

Lots of hugs....
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Postby ogr1 » Mon Jul 04, 2005 11:53 pm

i like your name little sweetie..

i have a ring that has to stone in it and that is for our twins..
so when i have it on it has them with me.

i hope that makes some kind of sence.
we where as people say only 8 wks pregnant.. well it only had taken us 23 years to get pregnant.

but my ring has ment alot to me.. i all so have a fountain with a bear and her twin cubs.. not many know that that represents my twins.
8 wks was alot to me. i seen there little heartbeats and had seen there photos from day one.. 8 wks was alot...
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and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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