Hi there
Welcome to the site first of all.
To answer your question I think seeing resemblenses in a baby is all in the mind. I don't know how many times I have been asked who I think a friends baby resembles and it doesn't look like either and it is their baby 100%. I used to look after 3 lovely girls when I was a nanny and all 3 we completely different from eachother. People used to ask me if they were from the same family. Sometimes I used to question it and had a laugh with the mum about it - she assured me they were 100% sisters.
A lot of the time it is more to do with characteristics rather than looks and a child can pick up things you say or do and be so like you or
DH in so many ways. My friend has a child though donor and it is so like the dad because of the way it acts and it's mannerisms.
I can understand your concerns as I have another friend who is considering donor eggs and is worried about what it will look like and I have to say it doesn't matter as this baby will be so loved and wanted whether it has dads eyes and mums nose.
I hope all your dreams come true.
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38
DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve
m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle