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more heartbreak......

Postby elaine uk » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:21 pm


i'm elaines "dh", she has'nt posted for a long time but still reads the postings regularly.

over the last couple of months we started our 3rd ivf cycle and got the news that it was a +ve, elaine had some bleeding last week and the clinic scanned her and found 2 pregnancy sacks, and both had heartbeats.

unfortunately the bleeding did not stop and yesterday we had a scan, only to reveal a large blood clot and no little heartbeats.

elaine asked me to post this for her.

elaine uk
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Postby Lavender1 » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:51 pm

Dear Elaine and 'DH'

I am so very sorry for you both. I don't think there are any words I can say to make you feel better at this time. Things such as "maybe sometimes these things happen for a reason beyond our understanding" will just make you angry right now?? Do know though, that there are so many people here that will be sending you so many hugs. I know we all post and don't see each other face to face, but we really do care about you. It's great that you have each other to lean on. Stay strong for each other.
Sending you both lots and lots of love,
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Postby DeniseM » Thu Nov 17, 2005 8:56 pm

I'm so sorry that this has happened. My heart goes out to both of you.
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