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Postby Nicholas'sMom » Wed Dec 07, 2005 7:22 pm

Hello,

My name is Heather, I'm 29 and DH 30, we did our first IVF cycle in Dec 2004 with a positve result, but on May 15, 2005 our son was born to early at 22 weeks gestation and passed away soon after being born. They think the cause was Incompotent Cervix, but not 100% sure. We just went through our second round of IVF/ICSI but it was negative. We were very surprise it didn't work, because it did the first time. I have a doctors appointment on Dec 12th and hope to start another IVF cycle soon. This site looks good and hope to help with all that we are going through. We are still grieving over our son and trying to have another baby is very hard for us. Hope this will help us.
Heather
1st-IVF-Dec 2004 +ve, Nicholas Born and became an Angel on May 15, 2005 at 22 Weeks Gestation.
2nd-IVF/ICSI-Nov 2005 -ve
3rd-IVF/ICSI-March 2006/ Canceled, low quality embroys.
Lap-April 26, 2006-Endo Stage 2
4th-IVF/ICSI-June or July 2006
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Postby souris » Wed Dec 07, 2005 8:05 pm

Hi Heather and welcome!

i am so sorry to hear about your son... Also about your failed IVF cycle, but unfortunately, IVF doesnt work everytime, sometimes you have to be patient and try few times ( a "normal" fertile couple will not concieve at every cycle).

I am sure you will find the help and the support you need, the ladies are great here!

I wish you the best for your appointment!

Take care
souris
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04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
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Postby Nicholas'sMom » Wed Dec 07, 2005 8:52 pm

Thanks Souris

I know I have to keep my hopes up, and hope that this next cycle works. My husbands Insurance only lets us do 3 cycle's and this will be our third. Then we probaly will have to go to IUI, but I don't want to think about that yet. Hopefully it works the this time, and I won't have to worry.
Heather
1st-IVF-Dec 2004 +ve, Nicholas Born and became an Angel on May 15, 2005 at 22 Weeks Gestation.
2nd-IVF/ICSI-Nov 2005 -ve
3rd-IVF/ICSI-March 2006/ Canceled, low quality embroys.
Lap-April 26, 2006-Endo Stage 2
4th-IVF/ICSI-June or July 2006
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Postby Lis » Wed Dec 07, 2005 11:11 pm

Hi Heather, welcome!

So sorry to here you've been having a rough time. The same thing happened to a friend of mine - 2 years ago her baby Aidan past away after being born at 21 weeks. They said similar about her cervix. She went on to become pg again. got a stitch put in her cervix and is now mother to a bouncing one year old! Keep up hope and PMA! I'll keep everything crossed for you.

Take care

Lisa xx
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5 failed donor inseminations July- Nov '06
6th DI Jan '07 ...... finally ..... OMG BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby jeffer » Thu Dec 08, 2005 9:36 am

hi hesther am so sorry to here about your son and the cycle it must be realy hard for you both and trying again also just rember to keep your chin up and youll get there in the end me and dh are starting our 1st icsi next jan/feb hes going for sperm retreval on the 20th dec so i hope alls well i will keep my fingers crossed for you , jen d




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Postby Nicholas'sMom » Thu Dec 08, 2005 1:39 pm

Thank you to everyone, we are keeping our chin's up, we pray all the time and when we go visit our son's grave we talk to him to give us strength and hope to go on.
Heather
1st-IVF-Dec 2004 +ve, Nicholas Born and became an Angel on May 15, 2005 at 22 Weeks Gestation.
2nd-IVF/ICSI-Nov 2005 -ve
3rd-IVF/ICSI-March 2006/ Canceled, low quality embroys.
Lap-April 26, 2006-Endo Stage 2
4th-IVF/ICSI-June or July 2006
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Postby Ady » Thu Dec 08, 2005 1:49 pm

Hi Heather,

So sorry to hear about Nicholas. Just stay positive. Maybe God has better things planned for you.

take care honey...

Ady.
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