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OCTOBER 2009 BABIES feeling nervous

Postby DNT0809 » Mon Feb 09, 2009 3:56 pm

Hi
Just seeing if anyone else out there is due in October. I know its early but I need someone who is sane to talk to. I am just so worried. Everything is going well, just like last time but last May I mc. I go for another US & blood this Thursday the 12th. My betas were great
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We saw the sac but there is just that uncertainity :roll: It drives me crazy. Plus I am still doing PIO :twisted: :twisted: If anyone wants a good laugh I gave myself freezer burn on my left cheek yes it is possible :oops:

I know I should be very happy about my BFP but just waiting for the MC. It sounds sick but the thoughts are just there. It's driving me crazy anyone else? Its so weird finally you get what you want then BAM oops am I suppose to feel this way?? Good Luck to all of you
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11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby mandeekins » Mon Feb 09, 2009 11:24 pm

Hey DNT0809, haven't seen you around much on the Jan-March board. I thought I'd check out this board today. I too am due in October. We just got our BFP Friday so I don't even have my first u/s until the 20th of this month...another TWW. I almost know exactly how you feel except for the mc, haven't had one of those. However, this is my first pregnancy and our first try at IVF, so I'm scared $hitle$$ that something will go wrong! It almost feels too good to be true! I'm hoping to get over this feeling soon!
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Postby natashamom » Tue Feb 10, 2009 4:54 am

Hi there,

I`m due Feb`8th!!

Like you,I just can`t believe it yet!

We did FET with 2 de.

me:46,dh 53,from Phoenix,AZ and you?

Let`s keep each other`s company so we don`t go nut!!

Oh,and try keeping positive!

Natasha.
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Postby DNT0809 » Tue Feb 10, 2009 12:29 pm

Mandeekins-First congrats that is awesome. Seriously, it feels weird being over here almost like I will jinz(spelling) myself. I go Thursday for the next u/s. What day are you due in October? The 20th seems far away but I'm sure you know it will be here before you know it. I have a new Dr. so far so good. This is my 6th try my first with him so so far he has an A+ in my book.

Natashamom-What day are you due in Feb?I am so trying to keep positive it's just past history. This Thursday I will be 6 weeks so I am happy about that but I also know its very common not to see the HB until 7 weeks again like Mandeekins said another 2WW argh.

I bought my DH the book last time what to expect when your expecting but for DH's. Then the dreded MC so do you think its to early to give it to him for Valentines Day?

Both of you have a great day & lots of baby dust to you all :D
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2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby natashamom » Tue Feb 10, 2009 4:03 pm

Hi,

so sorry,I meant I`m due Oct` 8th!!

Yes,about the book,I do think it`s a little early.

But that`s just my opinion...

Good luck!

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Postby DNT0809 » Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:24 pm

NATASHAMOM-I'm due the same day cool. So tomorrow is the day for the 6 week U/S. Still very nervous. At least DH can go this time last week he had to work. I hope the Dr. says no more PIO I can't deal with that ouchy :oops:

Make sure you both keep me updated :D :D
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1 BFN-2 transfer-5 frozen 07/2007
2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby mandeekins » Wed Feb 11, 2009 6:26 pm

DNT - I would go with your heart on the book. I think I'm getting that book as well for DH for Valentine's. I feel in my heart that we're in a good spot. If something goes wrong, it was going to go wrong whether I give him a book or not.

So I'm about a week behind you guys! Is this a first pg for either of you? This is my first and all the changes are so weird! My stomach is still bloated, I couldn't possibly be showing already right? The girls at work make fun and say I could if it's more than one baby...lol...they're all hoping for twins. I'm getting more and more nervous about my upcoming u/s.

Are either of you experiencing symptoms yet? I've only gotten nauseous a couple times, thank goodness. I'm not looking forward to morning sickness!

I guess I'll get some work done...talk to you soon!
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Postby DNT0809 » Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:03 pm

MANDEEKINS-Yeah I was thinking the same thing about the book. If it was meant to be it was. I go tomorrow for the next u/s with Hubby. My first BFP besides the MC :roll: I'm very bloated too but I am still on the PIO & supp too YUKKY. :twisted: I heard after week six your belly will go flat then about 3 weeks later you will get that little bump :shock: But now this is weird I read if you had a BFP prior you would show a lot earlier due to that which in my case would be true but ya know the things we read we can't believe all :wink: I have gotten nauseous a couple of times nothing bad at all but I would just throw a snack in my mouth & be fine. Boobs OMG are killing me but another side effect of PIO. So I really can't tell if the symptoms are true or PIO. I've been drinking a lot of water and waking every night at least 2 to 3 times to go to Pee :oops: But I will take it all.
How are you doing with all?
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2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby natashamom » Thu Feb 12, 2009 4:24 am

Hi ladies,

I just posted a new thread about my beta and first u/s,worried since my nurse didnt want me to go for sec` beta and my first u/s needs to be on my 8 week,I just don`t get it and even worried so will call them tomorrow...

My first beta was 189 post 14 days of transfer and my nurse seemed happy about it.

This is my 3rd preg`,I`m 46,dh,53(we used 2 donated embies,blasts,from 24y.o proven egg donor,I have 2 natural kids,dd 21(in France with my parents)and 12y.o ds with me.

Hoping for the best,good luck to us all,

Natasha.
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Postby DNT0809 » Thu Feb 12, 2009 4:04 pm

Well I heard the HB nice & strong 102 amazing still optimistic but :shock: :shock: happy. I have to go the next 2 Thursday then after that to my regular baby Dr. I'm just waiting for my BETA & PIO #'s.

Natashamom-Your BETA sounds great why are you worried I don't get it?
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1 BFN-2 transfer-5 frozen 07/2007
2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby mandeekins » Thu Feb 12, 2009 7:55 pm

DNT - Awwwww, you're so lucky you got to hear the HB! Did you cry? I was told I wouldn't be able to hear it until 1 1/2 weeks after my first u/s which is the 20th. This wait is so much longer than the BETA wait! And I'm so jealous if you get to stop PIO, so tired of those dang shots!

My bbs are more sore every day, and I still feel bloated. I feel some crampiness off and on, I'm so praying that's not a bad sign! I haven't gotten sick yet, and I pray I stay that way, but not holding out a whole lot of hope.

Natasha - why worried they didn't have you come back? My clinic also doesn't do the second BETA, but mine was 893! Your first BETA looks great, try not to worry too much!
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Postby DNT0809 » Thu Feb 12, 2009 8:54 pm

Well, no one needs to be jealous of me. Still have to do the PIO shots. My progesterone went down to a 33 from being over 40. The Dr. says its still good but I need to stay on all meds. Funny he told me not to use ice that it would help when it first goes in (the needle) but will kill later on & it does. I didn't cry when I heard it because of the previous mc. My DH & I are still not getting our hopes up until we hit the 9 week stretch. We will spill to everyone at the 12 week. We just don't want to go through all of that again. Don't get me wrong I am very happy I just have that little piece of me that is still not sure yet. I'm hoping in weeks to come it will happen :wink:
Me 39 DH 38
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1 BFN-2 transfer-5 frozen 07/2007
2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby mandeekins » Thu Feb 12, 2009 10:35 pm

That sucks...still taking shots :( But, look at it this way, one step closer to holding on your precious cargo. I understand how you feel, my husband hasn't completely celebrated or told any of his friends or family yet. He wants to wait until the 8-10 week range as well.

Ok, time for some TMI because I'm starting to worry. It seems that my discharge is becoming heavier over the last couple of days. Did either of you experience this? To make matters worse, today it's not clear either, although, it's not red or pink though. Should I call the clinic and talk to my nurse? Or is this a normal part of the pregnancy?
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Postby DNT0809 » Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:22 pm

MANDEEKINS- I would call your nurse. Tell them you want an u/s. I meanthey can't say no. I have had that discharge but I blame it on the preg supps.

I woke up in the middle of the night with 1 very strong cramp. I thought I got AF. Any of you have this yet> Very painful it woke me out of a deep sleep :roll:
Me 39 DH 38
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1 BFN-2 transfer-5 frozen 07/2007
2 chemical-3 transferred no frozen 09/2007
3 chemical-4 transferred 1 frozen 11/2007
12/2007 6 fibroids removed.
05/08 3 FET BFP miscarried at 8 weeks
11/08 3 FET BFN getting new RE
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Postby wednesday » Sat Feb 14, 2009 5:21 pm

Hi all,

I'm also due in October. The 22nd. This is my first IVF, and we had 2 very high quality embies transfered on day 5. My 14 day beta was 182, so now I wait another 2 weeks for the u/s. I'm so nervous! DH and I went bowling last night (we're in a league) and after the 1st game I started getting some cramps, so I immediately decided not to continue. My RE said theres nothing I can do to harm the pregnancy, and I know exercise is good, but I'd rather be safe than sorry. Does that sound stupid? Was I overreacting? I mean, I've been cramping all week, feeling like AF was going to start. I know I'm fine, but I am soooo scared of miscarrying.
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