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Postby riley129 » Thu Dec 07, 2017 5:34 am

Hi there. I am 43 years old. I recently got a divorce. I wanted to have a child. My ex-husband didn't. One thing led to another, and now we are no longer married. Now, long story short, I still want a child. What are my options? I have a low ovarian reserve too. The doctors say that is expected at my age. I get that. So, should I opt for a donor? Alternately, are there any meds I could use to boost the ovarian reserve? Normally, I wouldn't mind using a donor. However, given my current circumstances, I'm a little opposed to it. Now, I will need to use a sperm donor too. So, I was hoping that at least I would be genetically connected to my child.
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Postby Sia » Thu Jan 04, 2018 7:38 am

I can understand your situation how you are feeling at this time. As you decided for donor it is a good option.There are a number of clinics that are providing donors. You can check the success rates of the clinic and search about the clinic which one is best for this process.For this, you can consult with a specialist. In case if it doesn't work you can go for adoption.It is also the best way to feel the happiness of the child. As you said you want the child belongs to you genetically, So I want to say that when you start taking care of the child and will spend your more and more time with the child you will forget your all sorrows and pains and definitely you will feel an attachment with that child like your own.
Wishing you luck.......
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Postby kierrajack » Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:01 pm

Hi there. How are you? I am sorry to hear about the divorce. One can not spend the whole life alone. A child for sure completes our life. Don't you think you should marry again? How you will spend your whole life with out love and support of a partner? Btw you want to become a mother so you should go for surrogacy. It will suit you the best in this case. I heard very positive reviews for surrogacy in Ukraine. They have reasonable packages and an excellent environment. Please give it a thought. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.
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Postby maryponce » Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:47 pm

Hi, I am sorry that you are going through this. It is very hard to handle. I am really sorry for your divorce too. You are a brave woman. I also had complications in getting pregnant. It takes nerves to handle it. I have been through this. Then I visited biotex clinic. They suggested me IVF treatment. Now I am pregnant and healthy. This was a dream come true for me. You are having such complications. You should better go for them. I was also afraid in the start. You should not worry about it. I have seen their videos too. I can give you the link if you want. Do pay a visit. This will surely help. Good luck for future.
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Postby Alyssa562 » Thu Jan 11, 2018 7:28 pm

Hi, if you want to have your own child then sperm donor is the best option. At Least the baby will be yours and you will feel the real attachment with him. Sperm donation is the provision by a man (known as sperm donor) of his sperm (known as donor sperm), principally for it to be used in the artifical insemination of a female. Donor insemination is significantly less expensive than using donor eggs. The cost can range anywhere from $300 to $4,000, depending on whether the male partner's sperm is being used or if anonymous donor sperm is utilized. Sperms donors are of two types. Known donors and the Anonymous donors. Known donors tell their identity, while donating sperms and they want to keep in touch with their future baby to some extant. But the anonymous donors don't show their identity, and they don't want to remain in touch with their future baby. So, now the choice is yours, which donor you want to use. A number of clinics throughout the world are present which provide the donor sperm. Just search them on internet and go for it. Good luck.
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Postby nora253 » Thu Jan 11, 2018 7:54 pm

Hello, on the off chance that you need to have your own particular tyke then sperm giver is the best alternative. At any rate, the child will be yours and you will feel the genuine connection to him. Sperm gift is the arrangement by a man (known as a sperm benefactor) of his sperm (known as contributor sperm), primarily for it to be utilized as a part of the manual sperm injection of a female. Benefactor insemination is essentially more affordable than utilizing giver eggs. The cost can run somewhere in the range of $300 to $4,000, contingent upon whether the male accomplice's sperm is being utilized or if mysterious benefactor sperm is used. Sperms benefactors are two composers. Known givers and the Anonymous contributors. Known givers tell their character while giving sperms and they need to stay in contact with their future child to some degree. Yet, the mysterious givers don't demonstrate their personality, and they would prefer not to stay in contact with their future child. Along these lines, now the decision is yours, which contributor you need to utilize. Various centers all around the world are available which give the contributor sperm. Simply look them on the web and put it all on the line. Good fortunes.
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Postby Ghost » Thu Jan 11, 2018 9:17 pm

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Postby simonafiat » Fri Jan 12, 2018 6:10 am

Hi, I can understand what are you going through. It,s very tough time. I will suggest you to consult BioTexcom they have very excellent fertility treatment facilities. I have heard about the egg donor program there I am not sure about sperm donation options available there or not. You told about egg quality too, I hope that it’s not a big issue. As I have seen many ladies getting pregnant in their early 40’s. You can check all the information on their website. I wish you good luck and success in your attempts.
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Postby Ghost » Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:10 pm

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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