Bad news I'm afraid

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Post by woppa » Wed Oct 30, 2002 12:29 pm

Just to let you know that we lost our baby this morning. I woke up bleeding and went to local Early pregnancy unit who confirmed it with a scan. They have taken more blood--just in case but I know in my own heart that I probably lost it on Saturday when I had mega bleed.<br>Thanks to everyone who has been with us every step of the way. We'll be back--you are not getting rid of us yet !!<br>I'll keep checking boards to see how everyone else is getting on.<br>lots and lots of love and luck to you all<br><br><br>Elaine & Dougie<br>xxxxxxxxxxxx


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Post by Charmaine » Wed Oct 30, 2002 12:37 pm

Elaine,<br><br>I'm so sorry to hear this - I almost thought it was a forgone now and we were all just waiting for Fiona's results - Your HcG doubled though. You must feel so confused and sad. I really am truly sorry and wish both you and Dougie lots of love and hugs.<br><br>Lost of love<br>Charmaine<br>x<br>

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Post by beck » Wed Oct 30, 2002 12:37 pm

woppa............<br>im sooooo sorry, you must be deverstated !<br><br>i just dont know what to say, we are all here for you so please dont go away.<br>lots of love to you and hubby.<br>beck x

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Post by Louise » Wed Oct 30, 2002 1:15 pm

Woppa - I'm so sorry to hear your sad news.<br>You have been such a support to me on this awful 2ww.<br>My thoughts are with you and your husband,<br>Lots of love<br>Louise

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Post by Michelle » Wed Oct 30, 2002 1:48 pm

Woppa<br>I am so sorry for you and Dougie. It is just so unfair...I really don't know what advice to offer except take this time out to really look after each other. <br>I know that you won't give up as you are determined and strong.<br>I'm sending you lots of love.<br>Michelle x

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Post by fiona_lk » Wed Oct 30, 2002 2:25 pm

Hi Elaine,<br><br>I just can't find the words to say how sorry I am. <br><br>This yes/no/yes/no thing has got to be worst bit of the IVF rollercoaster I've ever experienced so know it must hurt so much.<br><br>Just don't give up. Give yourselves loads of time out and keep in touch.<br><br>My love to you and Dougie and we'll speak soon.<br><br><br>Fiona xx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!

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Post by Lissa » Wed Oct 30, 2002 2:33 pm

I am so so sorry to hear your news.<br><br>It is so unfair, but you will recover - big hug from everybody on this site, we are all thinking of you.<br><br>Lots of love<br>Lissa<br>xx

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Post by Lulu » Wed Oct 30, 2002 3:09 pm

Elaine & Dougie - so sorry to here your news. There is nothing anyone can say that will ease your pain but just to let you know we are all thinking of you. Take care<br><br>Lulu

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Post by tshepher » Wed Oct 30, 2002 3:12 pm

So, so sorry for you both. Lean on each other and know that you will get through this.<br>Very, very best wishes <br>Lots of love<br>Terri<br>xxx

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Post by DEBORAH » Wed Oct 30, 2002 8:29 pm

Hi Elaine & Dougie<br><br>I am s sorry to hear you sad sad news.<br><br>When I got my neg. result all I kept thinking about was that you were bleeding but still getting a positive result and I kept hoping I would be like you bleeding but still pregnant.<br><br>Nobody and nothing can prepare you for that negative result as you keep thinking "Will somebody PLEASE tell me what I have do wrong to deserve this".<br><br>I am going to say hang on in there but as I know only to well words cannot fill that void.<br><br>Love Debsx<br><br>

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Post by pru » Wed Oct 30, 2002 8:55 pm

So sorry to hear your sad news Woppa. I haven't been online that long but I already feel like you guys are my family. Good Luck for the future

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Post by heather » Wed Oct 30, 2002 9:04 pm

woppa,<br> Iam so very sorry hun. i know nothing i can say or do will make you feel any better, but i just wanted to let you know that i am thinking of you, and sending you lots of love. You take care of you, hun. Heather xxx
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Post by Julie Martin » Wed Oct 30, 2002 9:14 pm

<br>Elaine and Dougie,<br>So sorry to hear your sad news, i've been following your progress all the way.I dont know what to say to you both, only take care of each other, and your not alone. <br><br>Lots of love <br>Julie M

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Post by bibby » Wed Oct 30, 2002 10:13 pm

Elaine<br><br>Been following your rollercoaster ride all the way. Gutted to hear your news. Hang in there, you sound determined to pick yourself back up again and I'm sure you will do it.<br><br>Take care, lots of love<br>Bibby<br><br><br><br>[Edited by bibby on 30-Oct-02 22:19]

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Post by Alison » Wed Oct 30, 2002 11:09 pm

Dear Elaine - just to add my best wishes for you and your partner. You've been through such a lot over the past few weeks and seem to have borne it all with amazing good humour and reslience. I do hope that you'll be able to take some comfort from getting as far as you did and be able to believe that next time it will really work for you.<br><br>Much love<br><br>Alison x

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