oh hell, why is this so unfair?
thinking of you
xx
-sorry this doesn't provide any magic answers, but if it helps i'm crying for you!

...none in surrey yet...but can "smell" it in the air - blimin cold!

can anyone offer me any advice about how to tell parents, siblings and colleagues about needing to undergo treatment? should you tell anyone? select few? can't bear to think of people being embarrassed to discuss their children/pregnancies if they did know, but likewise after only a year of ...

so many people are thinking of you xxx (new to this but realising fast how much support is needed) take care.

.... this site is the business!
next time i log on am going to have a decaf cappuccino and great big muffin and pretenend i'm in st@rbucks with my mates!
thank you all so much for your immediate support and warmth. because yesterday was my day of discovery, last night was my night of mad dreams and ...

hey nickie,
good luck with everything coming up....
seemed like yesterday when i found out, that i was dropped into deep water and i was struggling to keep my head above it, now it already feels like loads of people are not only swimming with me but throwing me lifelines as well - thanks guys!
plus ...

hi dagny, thanks for responding and many congratulations!
well our nearest place is woking but to be honest are still letting it all sink in.
the happiest and most difficult thing is that two of my dearest friends and my sister in law are all expecting at the moment, i am of course thrilled for them ...

thanks angela, feeling a sense of relief already!
we've started the ball rolling in central london because i work at the hospital, but if we go ahead with treatment will prob be in surrey, where we live.
need some time to let it all sink in, a hard part is i'm a midwife, so constantly surrounded by ...

have just discovered this site after finding out this morning we will need ICSI to become parents. just wanted to say hello to people that might know how it feels....