Hi,
I'm 37 and in our case, it was a male factor also (poor morphology and poor motility). Be positive! IVF/ICSI worked for us on our first try! I had 11 eggs retrieved, 7 fertilized. We did 3day transfer. Of the 7, 5 were 8-cells with a fairly good grade. We were only going to put 3 back in but ...