Thank you for posting your thoughts and also for the book suggestions. It helps to know that others are going through the same things. I'm going to order the books now.

best of luck!!

We're going through this now...after finding no sperm from TESE...I just posted about it... DH is being SO considerate and is totally willing to go forward with donor sperm - but he's an angel and I'm worried that he's doing it for me but that his heart isn't in it and that later he might not feel ...

Did you have any trouble feeling that the child was both of yours?

I'm worried that it will secretly bother my DH on a deep level if we use donor sperm -- that he won't bond as well with the child -- or that there will be an imbalance in the family?

We're both sad after having our IVF canceled ...

Did you have any trouble feeling that the child was both of yours?

I'm worried that it will secretly bother my DH on a deep level if we use donor sperm -- that he won't bond as well with the child -- or that there will be an imbalance in the family?

We're both sad after having our IVF canceled ...

Did you have any trouble feeling that the child was both of yours?

I'm worried that it will secretly bother my DH on a deep level if we use donor sperm -- that he won't bond as well with the child -- or that there will be an imbalance in the family?

We're both sad after having our IVF canceled ...