my thoughts are with you and Dh - its just so hard for us when we can't give our DH's the baby we all want so much - it must be so difficult seeing your DH so upset - especially as you say this time has hit him harder - life is just so unfair and sucks at times - you are one strong lady - it may not feel like it at the moment - but at least you are already thinking to the future in that you have already emailed IM with questions and answers you need before you decide on your next course of action.
take some time out - go for a pamper or just spend some quality time together doing something totally different(- just been on Champneys website a couple of good offers for december )
Hope work is not too gruelling tomorrow and you have the strenght to get through the next few weeks
I really feel for u and ur DH right now, and as Nimble said - we often forget about our DH's in all of this shite, so i wanted to do summit for him too
Make the decision on your next step only when you and your DH are feeling better and your life is back to normal again. Then you can be sure your judgement won't be clouded by your emotions.
Thinking of you guys!
Andrea
DOWN BUT NOT OUT...
4 rollercoaster yrs of IVF using own eggs, then -
1st IVF (DE fresh) Jan 2008 - BFN
2nd IVF (DE frosties) May 2008 - cancelled