so i'm watching talk show (maury) and the topic is "he beats and controls me"......so sad....these women that put up w/ men that dish out that kind of crap!! i'd be like WTF EVER MF --- take this seriously though....i don't understand why women stay....i knwow they say they are battered and just know any better -- but come on ladies!!!
can i just tell you guys that that i can't even type right now --- keep messin' up cuz i'm shaking so bad!!!!!!
I was married to one of them for 10 years before i got up and walked out - lovely guy (to everyone else) when he was sober - but he loved his beer and his fists more than me .... Its not easy!
i'm soooo sorry beck.........didn't mean to be so insensitive about it good that you got out when ya did!!! you wouldnt have us!
thanks for checkin in me angel.....am still here --- hangin on.....BARELY!!! good-grief!!!!!!!!! i figured they told me 3:30 as a "worst case scenario" - but that i'd really get a call before then........ see what i get for thinkin!!!!!!!!!!!
Nooooooooo dont be daft hun, i didnt take offense! I say it myself the silly cows lol.
Was talking once to my eldest DD and i said to her - if a man ever raises his hands to u - u walk away and get out of that relationship - and her reply was ....
Well you didnt!!!
I was stunned - i didnt even know that she knew, i always tht i hid it well, not well enough obvisouly. I think she was just trying to say that she knew, and it was ok that she knew - she said she would never put up with it after seeing me and her dad (who she calls prick now lol) they hate him, so in a way - i have gained 2 beautiful DD and a wonderful DH who is fab with the girls - so im happy
That clinic is doing my head in - come onnnnnnnnnnnnn
yeah - isn't it funny how our kids pick up on SO MUCH MORE than we give them credit for????!!!!!! scary sometimes.....
and WTF - you allow your dd's to take their tea to their room?????? NO WAY does that happen in our house!!! no-sir ----- if you want dinner - you'll come to the table and we'll eat as a family!! NOW, there are of course exceptions to that --- we all eat in front of tellie sometimes.... but that's it.....no eating in bedroom!!