Ok so I need some ideas to help stimulate my hubby into having sex more often so we can start training ourselves for the "big event" lol
we have become pretty slack over the years, we are down to once and maybe twice a week at being intimate, but we need to amp that up to get the most out of our money so to speak.
Last time we tried getting preggers, the doc said to try and have sex every other day during ovulation...that failed miserable the last time, the pressure was just too much for hubby.
I am very sexual and my husband is very reserved...he had/has very low self esteem and when he was growing up, convinced himself of some weird ideas when it comes to sex...over the years we have worked on it, and his attitude is much better, but his drive is low
well not sure if it is really his drive, or still his ideals that keep us down to once a week or not
anyway we both know we need to change that and have agreed to work on it, but i know what that means, it means it is up to me to do all the work and ingenuity to get this ball rolling
so any ideas that can help would be welcome...i am open to trying anything, but i need enough ideas to keep tricking him lol
sexy email messages, sexy phone calls during the middle of the work day, porn...those are some of my ideas...have any more?
thanks!
Help keeping it interesting and exciting?
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sillysqrrl
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