New to IVF and Stressed...
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jenoutdoors
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New to IVF and Stressed...
Hi! My name is Jennifer and I am two weeks into my IVF cycle. I'm going for my first supression check on Thursday. I'm excited and hopeful but a little stressed at the same time. My stress is with my fertility clinic. They seem to be dropping the ball a couple times and It's stressing me out. They had in my file that I'm a smoker (which I'm not). If I had not stayed on top of it, I would not have received my injections in the mail on time and my RN ordered the wrong size needles for my Projesterone. Ugh! I'm losing confidence in them. Are these things typical for the process?? It's a lot of money out of pocket and you'd think they should be more on top of things.
Hi Jennifer,
Best of luck to you! Are you doing acupuncture for this cycle? I highly recommend it. I didn't do it for my first cycle, but wish that I had now that I am doing it for my second cycle. I am definitely more relaxed this time around.
I had issues with my clinic too. I received the wrong size needles for my stimulating shots and was really upset by it.
My experience has been that with all medical issues, it is important for the patient to be their own advocate and stay on top of things, as I am sure you know. Just try to find something that allows you relax during this process, whether it be acupuncture, yoga, etc.
Again, good luck!!
Kristin
Best of luck to you! Are you doing acupuncture for this cycle? I highly recommend it. I didn't do it for my first cycle, but wish that I had now that I am doing it for my second cycle. I am definitely more relaxed this time around.
I had issues with my clinic too. I received the wrong size needles for my stimulating shots and was really upset by it.
My experience has been that with all medical issues, it is important for the patient to be their own advocate and stay on top of things, as I am sure you know. Just try to find something that allows you relax during this process, whether it be acupuncture, yoga, etc.
Again, good luck!!
Kristin
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jenoutdoors
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Thank you!
Hi Kristin,
Thanks so much for replying to my post. I'm not doing acupuncture but what a great idea for stress relief. I definitely need some kind of outlet for my stress so I can stay relaxed and excited about this process. I'm going to look into it. And, thank you for the advice on my fertility clinic. That really helps put things in the right perspective and I feel better knowing that I'm not alone with my frustration.
Best of luck to you on your second cycle!!
Jennifer
Thanks so much for replying to my post. I'm not doing acupuncture but what a great idea for stress relief. I definitely need some kind of outlet for my stress so I can stay relaxed and excited about this process. I'm going to look into it. And, thank you for the advice on my fertility clinic. That really helps put things in the right perspective and I feel better knowing that I'm not alone with my frustration.
Best of luck to you on your second cycle!!
Jennifer
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turtle0619
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hi jennifer!! you should jump on over the the nov/dec cycle board...it is a great place to find answers to questions and get the support we all need during IVF (when its usually a very lonely thing to go through)
good luck this cycle!! i always call and question my clinic...at first i thought i was over-reacting, but then i realized this is what i'm paying for and they should take the time time answer all my questions.
i hope to see you on the cycle board!
good luck this cycle!! i always call and question my clinic...at first i thought i was over-reacting, but then i realized this is what i'm paying for and they should take the time time answer all my questions.
i hope to see you on the cycle board!
~ Franny
me-35- stage 4 endo
DH-30- perfect
TTC for 5 years
1+2 IVF 2009- both cxl
3rd IVF Jan. 2010- BFN
4th IVF April 2010- BFN
5th IVF July 2010-BFN
6TH IVF Sept 2010- BFN
moving on to donor embies
FET Feb 2012-BFN
FET Jun 2012- Here we go again!
me-35- stage 4 endo
DH-30- perfect
TTC for 5 years
1+2 IVF 2009- both cxl
3rd IVF Jan. 2010- BFN
4th IVF April 2010- BFN
5th IVF July 2010-BFN
6TH IVF Sept 2010- BFN
moving on to donor embies
FET Feb 2012-BFN
FET Jun 2012- Here we go again!
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sharishu
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Jen-
You're not alone! My fertility clinic is not very 'warm and fuzzy', and they are short with me on the phone, no patience, etc. However, I am going back there, because my baby boy was born as a result of their treatment. I'll suck it up, do yoga, and hope for the best!
Good luck to you!
Shari
You're not alone! My fertility clinic is not very 'warm and fuzzy', and they are short with me on the phone, no patience, etc. However, I am going back there, because my baby boy was born as a result of their treatment. I'll suck it up, do yoga, and hope for the best!
Good luck to you!
Shari
Damaged Tubes; 1st IVF- BFN; 2nd IVF-BFP, our precious son :); 3rd IVF stopped due to natural miracle BFP, then mc@8 wks.; 4th IVF: June '11- BFN :( Bring On IVF#4!
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jenoutdoors
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karenthescorpio
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Welcome Jenoutdoors! I had a hard time with my clinic. They made my life so much more stressful than necessary as a first-time IVF'er. I was not able to do ET during my fresh cycle. Did the ET yesterday (2 blasts)...and now I'm in the 2ww. I tell ya...the anticipation never ends! But it'll be worth it!
As others have mentioned, you really have to manage your own process. Which seems completely ridiculous given the costs of this process, but it's so true! And also with any medical care! Most RE's have a large number of patients in treatment at one time. Ask questions...and write them down so when you get there you don't forget or get nervous to ask. Don't expect emotional support from them. They are all science and business. This message board will be your best friend...in addition to those loved one's around you! I also found that exercise was a great relief for me...since I had to give up wine! Ha! Even if it was just walking (when I had mild OHSS).
As others have mentioned, you really have to manage your own process. Which seems completely ridiculous given the costs of this process, but it's so true! And also with any medical care! Most RE's have a large number of patients in treatment at one time. Ask questions...and write them down so when you get there you don't forget or get nervous to ask. Don't expect emotional support from them. They are all science and business. This message board will be your best friend...in addition to those loved one's around you! I also found that exercise was a great relief for me...since I had to give up wine! Ha! Even if it was just walking (when I had mild OHSS).
Me: 40, mild pcos
DH: 38, male factor
IVF#2 BFP! Twins! PTL at 23wks
IVF #3 Nov '10 BFP
Gemma Grace was born June 24, 2011!
DH: 38, male factor
IVF#2 BFP! Twins! PTL at 23wks
IVF #3 Nov '10 BFP
Gemma Grace was born June 24, 2011!
MY RE Clinic
Wow, reading these posts makes me really appreciate my clinic. They are the kindest people I have ever met, and they have really been on top of things. My OBGYN sounds more like what you all have experienced, and actually gave me someone else's results one time! Once I am pregnant, I will NOT be going back there. It's amazing how lightly some of them take these issues that are so important to us. I guess they're only people and make mistakes like the rest of us do. Just so frustrating when it's you!