All
Looks like it might all be over - I have started bleeding and despite me keep telling myself that this could be perfectly normal, I know I am just kidding myself.
Oh well at least I managed to be pregnant for 3 days - its the furthest I've ever been.
Unfortunately this was are 1 and only attempt so it really is pants.
Thanks to all of you for your support and wishes, and to those of you on your 2ww don't read anything into this - it happens
Take Care
DeeDee
Not Good News
Oh DeeDee
No, no, no this mustn't happen, I am so shocked for you. Have you spoken to anyone at your clinic? There are lots of girls who have bled and gone on to still be PG. I bled but around 6 weeks but if I remember rightly Alisonn or Allison can't remember which spelling had a bleed and thought it was deffo game over and she is still very much PG. When was your scan booked in for??
I am thinking of you and I hope it isn't all over, it can't be.
Take care DeeDee
Love and big {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
Dagny xkx
No, no, no this mustn't happen, I am so shocked for you. Have you spoken to anyone at your clinic? There are lots of girls who have bled and gone on to still be PG. I bled but around 6 weeks but if I remember rightly Alisonn or Allison can't remember which spelling had a bleed and thought it was deffo game over and she is still very much PG. When was your scan booked in for??
I am thinking of you and I hope it isn't all over, it can't be.
Take care DeeDee
Love and big {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Dee Dee
This is awful and I know I would be a mess but talk to the clinic and try not to panic. You had a strong reading on hpt and did you have a blood test. Had this with someone over the other side recently - think Shellie and sure enough twins! This can be frequent in twin cases after a positive - all the extra hormones and can be one coming away or not implanting properly or them both being fine but your body just having a wobble.
Please speak to the clinic and get bloods taken to see the hcg levels.
Thinking of you
Love
Tracey
xxx
This is awful and I know I would be a mess but talk to the clinic and try not to panic. You had a strong reading on hpt and did you have a blood test. Had this with someone over the other side recently - think Shellie and sure enough twins! This can be frequent in twin cases after a positive - all the extra hormones and can be one coming away or not implanting properly or them both being fine but your body just having a wobble.
Please speak to the clinic and get bloods taken to see the hcg levels.
Thinking of you
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
DeeDee - sorry to hear this scary bleeding has started. I echo the earlier advice, ask for a new blood test and you'll know PDQ where you stand. It's so worrying I know, but try to remain positive until you absolutely know one way or another.
love
Debra.
love
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
All
Thanks for your wise words, I did speak to my clinic yesterday pm who said that it could be a number of different things. Last night the bleeding had stopped so I was feeling quite positive that it had been implantation bleeding. BUT this morning I am bleeding with avengence - no clots but lots of blood, despite wanting to remain positive I can't help thinking that this is not good news. I will call my clinic again and ask if they will give me a blood test.
Again thanks everyone
DeeDee
Thanks for your wise words, I did speak to my clinic yesterday pm who said that it could be a number of different things. Last night the bleeding had stopped so I was feeling quite positive that it had been implantation bleeding. BUT this morning I am bleeding with avengence - no clots but lots of blood, despite wanting to remain positive I can't help thinking that this is not good news. I will call my clinic again and ask if they will give me a blood test.
Again thanks everyone
DeeDee
Hi Dee Dee
Oh hun im thinking of you and sending lots of positive vicbes to you
i havent got to your stage yet but i so hope the bleeding stops again for you and you get a big fat positive
((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))
Lots Of Love Ang xxxxxxxxxxx
Oh hun im thinking of you and sending lots of positive vicbes to you
i havent got to your stage yet but i so hope the bleeding stops again for you and you get a big fat positive
((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))
Lots Of Love Ang xxxxxxxxxxx
Our dream came true after 5 yrs ttc we know have 8month old twin boys Adam and Kieran and our gorgeous 9 yr old daughter.
Hang in there miracles really do happen
Hang in there miracles really do happen
Oh DeeDee
I really am so sorry. I hope you get to have a blood test just so you'll know one way or the other. This is so horrid and I am thinking of you today. Take care and let us know what happens.
Love and hugs Dagny xkx
I really am so sorry. I hope you get to have a blood test just so you'll know one way or the other. This is so horrid and I am thinking of you today. Take care and let us know what happens.
Love and hugs Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
All
Just to update you, had a blood test yesterday, results after 3pm today.
Am still bleeding, this is AF, without a doubt, so fully prepared for clinic to confirm.
Have done some research which would suggest that my embbies failed to implant, you still get a positive, but a weak one, mine was weak but I put it down to the huge amounts of water I have been drinking, c.8 litres a day, sometimes more. A bit peed that if this was the case taking asprin may have helped, you may recall my clinic weren't happy when I suggested this, suggested all sorts of scary stories which at the time I felt I had to do as they said. With hindsight wish I had taken the asprin, after all it couldn't have killed me.
On the plus side, at least I got pregnant, and whilst I was having my blood test yesterday they confirmed that everything was as good as it could have possibly been. They said that I would need to have another appointment with the Dr at the clinic before another cycle, to ask any questions, but as I don't like the Dr (she was the one who said no about the asprin, and is very patronising) and as we don't have any questions I am going to insist that we by pass and start tmt again asap. This time I am going to be in control, feel much more confident about the whole thing. Only thing is that looking at the dates if the cycle was the same as last time I would test on the same day as my 40th - could I really cope with a -ive and being 40
Anyway I'll let you know the result later today, in the meantime a BIG thank you to you all for your concern and support
DeeDee
Just to update you, had a blood test yesterday, results after 3pm today.
Am still bleeding, this is AF, without a doubt, so fully prepared for clinic to confirm.
Have done some research which would suggest that my embbies failed to implant, you still get a positive, but a weak one, mine was weak but I put it down to the huge amounts of water I have been drinking, c.8 litres a day, sometimes more. A bit peed that if this was the case taking asprin may have helped, you may recall my clinic weren't happy when I suggested this, suggested all sorts of scary stories which at the time I felt I had to do as they said. With hindsight wish I had taken the asprin, after all it couldn't have killed me.
On the plus side, at least I got pregnant, and whilst I was having my blood test yesterday they confirmed that everything was as good as it could have possibly been. They said that I would need to have another appointment with the Dr at the clinic before another cycle, to ask any questions, but as I don't like the Dr (she was the one who said no about the asprin, and is very patronising) and as we don't have any questions I am going to insist that we by pass and start tmt again asap. This time I am going to be in control, feel much more confident about the whole thing. Only thing is that looking at the dates if the cycle was the same as last time I would test on the same day as my 40th - could I really cope with a -ive and being 40
Anyway I'll let you know the result later today, in the meantime a BIG thank you to you all for your concern and support
DeeDee
Oh Dee Dee
I do so hope you get some answers - what I really hope is you are still pg! Re the aspirin - don't beat yourself up about it - not sure it really did make a difference - it's a hard call this aspirin business.
Hang in there
Thinking of you....
Love
Tracey
xxx
I do so hope you get some answers - what I really hope is you are still pg! Re the aspirin - don't beat yourself up about it - not sure it really did make a difference - it's a hard call this aspirin business.
Hang in there
Thinking of you....
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
DeeDee - glad you've had the test, I'll be watching and waiting until you get your result later today. Fingers crossed.
If (only IF) this is AF....then both Loopy and I went through exactly the same thing in March. A positive quickly followed by AF...I have to say it's worse than getting a straightforward negative. You know we'll be here no matter what this afternoon.
As for thinking ahead to any next tmt...positive thinking never hurts but the clinic might suggest a gap of a couple of months. When were you thinking of? My clinic are anti-aspirin so like Tracey S (which stands for Sage I think) don't beat yourself up about it, lots of clinics don't recommend it, the research isn't conclusive at all.
Not worried about 40 are you??? come on in, the water's lovely! Really, it's not that bad at all. The first person to ask me my age since I turned the big 4-0, was a woman of 32 who then shouted 'omg, my mum is only 47'. WTF!!
I hope the day passes quickly for you.
love
Debra.
If (only IF) this is AF....then both Loopy and I went through exactly the same thing in March. A positive quickly followed by AF...I have to say it's worse than getting a straightforward negative. You know we'll be here no matter what this afternoon.
As for thinking ahead to any next tmt...positive thinking never hurts but the clinic might suggest a gap of a couple of months. When were you thinking of? My clinic are anti-aspirin so like Tracey S (which stands for Sage I think) don't beat yourself up about it, lots of clinics don't recommend it, the research isn't conclusive at all.
Not worried about 40 are you??? come on in, the water's lovely! Really, it's not that bad at all. The first person to ask me my age since I turned the big 4-0, was a woman of 32 who then shouted 'omg, my mum is only 47'. WTF!!
I hope the day passes quickly for you.
love
Debra.
Well its as I thought a low HCG count - so no surprises really. I think I would have been more worried if they had said anything different.
All being well tmt should start again end August (is it too early to start a Sept cycle thread), have to have 2 AF's first, this is one of them, so dates willing.
The clinic asked me yesterday how I had found the treatment, compared to some of you I sailed through, the most painful part was the amount of money it cost
Debra - are you planning on another cycle, if so when?
Appreciate that the asprin thing is inconclusive but as it can't hurt I am going to give it a try, but won't change anything else.
So 6 weeks to get back to the gym, gave it up completely once I started sniffing, stopped drinking back in May, although did have 1 or 2 (OK maybe 3) between May and stimming.
What a rollercoaster this week has been - since Sunday I have been right up there, then Wednesday right down there - climbing back up again now, have had a few tears but crying never helped anyone solve anything and always makes me look even more hidous so try not to induldge.
Living off beans now to pay for the next tmt, off to buy a lottery ticket - if I win - I'll pay for us all (don't hold me to it)
Take care everyone, legs up everyone on the 2ww - don't read anything into your own symptoms - we are all different and will all get different results - worrying never solved anything and unfortuanately the amount of worrying you do is not going to affect the outcome.
DeeDee
All being well tmt should start again end August (is it too early to start a Sept cycle thread), have to have 2 AF's first, this is one of them, so dates willing.
The clinic asked me yesterday how I had found the treatment, compared to some of you I sailed through, the most painful part was the amount of money it cost
Debra - are you planning on another cycle, if so when?
Appreciate that the asprin thing is inconclusive but as it can't hurt I am going to give it a try, but won't change anything else.
So 6 weeks to get back to the gym, gave it up completely once I started sniffing, stopped drinking back in May, although did have 1 or 2 (OK maybe 3) between May and stimming.
What a rollercoaster this week has been - since Sunday I have been right up there, then Wednesday right down there - climbing back up again now, have had a few tears but crying never helped anyone solve anything and always makes me look even more hidous so try not to induldge.
Living off beans now to pay for the next tmt, off to buy a lottery ticket - if I win - I'll pay for us all (don't hold me to it)
Take care everyone, legs up everyone on the 2ww - don't read anything into your own symptoms - we are all different and will all get different results - worrying never solved anything and unfortuanately the amount of worrying you do is not going to affect the outcome.
DeeDee