Second IVF attempts are a success

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bettysanders007
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Second IVF attempts are a success

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Hi all, I failed first IVF cycle with donor egg, but have heard that second IVF cycle is successful.
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Heard that Usually in the second attempt doctors seems to have a better idea about what treatments to give.
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Hello, I am sorry to hear about your failed attempt. It is devastating, I had success with 2nd IVF. Usually in the second attempt doctors seems to have a better idea about what treatments to give. When do you plan on doing another? Best of luck to you.
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Is that so? In that case, I will not have so much hope with my first!
Really hope it would work out though as am so anxious to have a child. Not easy to have other family members watching and waiting for you to have a baby.
Perhaps it's true Doctors do have a better idea on the second attempt. Will just wait and see how it goes when the time comes for me to go for IVF.
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Hi, it is a difficult time when infertility strikes a couple. We had a failed ICSI and was the hardest thing to deal with. But my second round went well and we have 1 year old twins now. The second attempt does works as the treatment has advanced more. Be positive and all the best to you.
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Hi all, thanks for posting, this is really reassuring that second attempts are a success but I need more hope.
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Hi
So hard read about this... My soul is teared apart when I face with such failures.That's the worst thing ever, as for me. When you full of hope, full of joy and waiting for positve news...But everything is breaking in one moment... So desperate feelings... But don't let the bad things to keep your mind! It's extremely hard to do this, but only if you will be strong enough, you will go all this thorny way. I have many examples when ivf worked, and this thing just keep a small ray of hope in my soul. These examples are close to us, we can find them everywhere. My colleague is a great woman, whe went through all these stages and finally she succeed. I'm so happy for her, but a little jealous... In despite of that, her success gives me more and more strength to move forward and never give up. Remember - only positive thoughts will make us happy. Keep going and everything will be good. Good luck with your tries.
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Post by Sia »

Hii,
It's bad to know that you had failed the first cycle. As you want to know that second attempt will be successful or not.It is not sure you will find the success at this time because It depends upon your health condition how much you are prepared for it.Every woman has the different health conditions sometimes you succeed but sometimes not.But don't worry and don't be impatient because miracles happen every day.My sister had got the success at 4 cycle due to some health issue.So take care of yourself properly I really hope this second attempt will get the success.
Best of luck for this.....
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agreed with bettysanders007 and Sia. I have also read that ladies who want to increase their chances for getting pregnant, combine IVF DE with PGS NGS.
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bettysanders007 wrote:Hi all, I failed first IVF cycle with donor egg, but have heard that second IVF cycle is successful.
TBH with you, nothing really guarantee a success in IVF no matter how promising it might seem. However, it is clinically believed that each process increases the chance of your success as the medication, monitored cycles and all other things included in the treatment regime tend to set your reproductive physiology to it's optimum - improving a bit of it in the process. As for me, I had success with IVF after having had failed 2 attempts and would strongly recommend that you should stay strong and keep trying. Also, recently I came across a lady in one of the forums who shared that she was unable to conceive for over 6 years and had 3 failed IVF attempt (with 1 early pregnancy loss during the IVFs after which she decided to take a break). The reason for her infertility was mentioned as less no of eggs even with all the stimulations and the poor quality of the embryo. It was rather strange yet hopeful that she decided to take a break from the rollercoaster and conceived her twins during that time naturally. I asked her if she has seen improvements while in the process to reassure that it was indeed the whole IVF thing that helped somehow and she said that the nos of egg in the third retrieval almost doubled and that she still have 4 frosties left from the 3rd one. Even in my case, I'd say I wasn't sure it's gonna work with the 3rd - the PCOS left some deep routed problems, the egg quality wasn't any good, the stims wasn't much help in the first IVF, my lining was just 8.1 (Dr wasn't satisfied at all). Last but not least, the failures were a huge deprivation and devastation that almost made me emotionally unstable (that is not good for conceiving) - yet it did work when I guess I was hoping for it but least expecting it. So, go ahead with optimism for the second round for you never know when success awaits you. :) I'll pray that you get bundle of joy soon enough, good luck!
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Hi guys!
I worked with Ukrainian agency Babyboom clinic.
They offer IVF with egg donation and Surrogacy programs without age limitations.
Thanks to them, I am 4 months pregnant.
Good luck to everyone!
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MerryS-r wrote:Hi guys!
I worked with Ukrainian agency Babyboom clinic.
They offer IVF with egg donation and Surrogacy programs without age limitations.
Thanks to them, I am 4 months pregnant.
Good luck to everyone!
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine for the reasons in my signature.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Hello dear! First of all I want to wish you best of luck with your upcoming cycle. I'm sorry your first try failed. But you still have one more try and I hope it will be successful! Moreover research shows that chances to gp increase with each next try after failed cycle. You are doing everything which depends on you for this procedure to work! I'm sure the universe will do the same for you. Best of luck, dear! I hope you'll keep us updated.
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Sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how difficult is this when you hoping something but nothing worked. Especially, in case of IVF, it's even more difficult. Getting into IVF is itself very difficult, and a failure makes it tougher. But at this time, you need to be calm and understand the treatment requirement. I also underwent IVF, and get success in the third cycle, So, I can relate to you and understand your situation. But let me tell, it's sad but there is no surety of success even in the second or third attempt. The success of IVF depends upon various factors such as age, health condition, response to treatment. Moreover, the clinic from which you are having treatment matters a lot. So, be careful while choosing one. Because the success rate of clinics is different. All I can say, just be brave, be calm and take care of your health well, only then you can response your treatment. I know its hard but you can do it for your baby. Good Luck.
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