September Hope's and Dream's

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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souris
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Post by souris »

Hey Lisa, nice to hear from you. I hope you will be ready to start again soon! take care hun

Becky, I think all is ok as long as it is not pink and loads. It could well be implantation bleeding! Try not to worry ( i know, impossible!)

Mia, If you dont already have your result, I hope it will be very soon. Finger crossed!

Jacky, good news on the follies. 6 is a good number amd hoping for the lazy one to catch up! My clinic does light sedation for EC. I wish they would do general for me as I dont do very well at EC. Always very painful. On my first attempt, I could not walk for a week, I dont usually mind the pain, but this was too much! Been better on the 2nd one though, so maybe the 3rd will be enjoyable!!

Zirly, congrats on the blast!! I am sure you wont need him, but it is reassuring to know that one of your fighter is waiting for you!

Jackie, we miss you , how are you?? Thinking of you sweetie

ok, it is 1 in the morning, i should be sleeping but i cant, i guess because of the nerves! Still have huge problems with Dh daughter (and I am getting some lovely mails from DH's ex, all i need at the moment!!) But I have decided to be optimistic, another 10 years and all of this will be behind us !!!!

love to all ladies
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souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
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hopeful-in-LV
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Post by hopeful-in-LV »

:( bad news, it's a BFN. I was really trying to stay positive during my 2ww, but you know how you sometimes just have that tiny feeling in your gut, that you just can't figure out what it is, but you know something is wrong. I just didn't want to admit I had that. My RE has been great, I know he did everything he could do. He thinks the embryos and the uterine linning just were not compatable. Everything else seemed fine. I have a meeting with him Tuesday to review the cycle. I think there were a lot of things I could have done better. I could be eating better, getting more exercise, not letting myself get stressed. I had a stressful time that week. One of DH's friends showed up and was here the whole time during ER and ET. I was not at all happy about it. Anyway, my RE says we can start an FET right away. DH and I think we might wait a month or two to give my body a break from all the hormones and for me to get healthier physically and mentally. I'm looking into herbal and natural supplements that might help. Maybe accupucture. Anyway if we wait I can take the opportunity to paint a wall in my house and help DH landscape the backyard.

DH is the best. He's my angel. I know he is dissapointed too. He told me he knows having a baby is the most important thing to me, but to him my happiness is the most important thing to him. He says that we'll keep trying and we'll do IVF again and again if we have too. We'll max out our credit and go bankrupt if we have to, he just wants us to have a baby.

Don't worry about me, I still feel positive. It's not over yet. I'm sure our FET is going to work. :)
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Post by zirly »

Mia, I am so sorry to hear this but I LOVE LOVE LOVE your attitude! :) I am sure with your attitude a BFP is just around the corner.

Go enjoy a glass of wine and some sushi!

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Post by hopeful-in-LV »

Me again.... I just wanted to tell you guys that you are the best! Thanks for being here for me during this crazy process and thanks for all your support. xoxoxoxo


Jackie, how did your beta go. the list says LFP. Does that mean 'little fat PG'. I hope so. :D Congrats!! All the best to you and sticky, sticky, sticky baby dust!!
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Macca Sadley BFN Image
Jackie Beta 561... Image Our little Miracle A Natural BFPImage
JackieG Beta 14Image..second test 8th (praying hard for you) LFP Image
Mia Sadley BFN Image

Rose........11th September Test Date.. Image Little ones snuggling inImage
Vickie ... 14th September Test Date..Image 2 Little ones snuggling inImage
Becky........15th September Test Date.. Image 2 Little ones snuggling inImage
Emma ... 15th September Test Date ..Image2 Little ones Snuggling in Image
Paula ... 21st September Test Date ..Image2 Little ones Snuggling in Image


Zirly ... 18th September Test Date ..ImageA beautiful little blast Girl settling in Image
Angela ....... September Image 2 Little ones Snuggling in Image
Karen ... 2nd September ..Image4 Beautiful Eggs Image
Souris .. EC 11th September .......ImageSo excited for youImage
Nimble ....... September ...Image6 follies so far StimmingImage(11th scan) (EC pos 13th)
IslaCraig .......September ........ImageStimmingImage
Holly.........September ..ImageDoing IUI Image
Haylie ....... 12th September ........Image Start Stimming Image
Kvgsmom.........September ..Nasal spray ImageFET 18th
Lauralou ...... 1st September ................Lupron Image
Suzette ..... September .......Nasal Spray Image
Jemima.........September .....................BC Image
Michelle ..... September .......Nasal Spray Image
Emma27 .......September.............Down Regging Image
Eileen ....... September .............Down Regging Image
Jeck .........11th september ............Start Down Regging Image
Aunty .........14th September .....start LupronImage
Saxony............September.................................... FET Image
Mary .......10th? September .............Start Down Reg Image
Lisa(bella) .........??th September ........... Possible Start Image
Casy .........29th September ........... Possible Start Image
AMD............ ........................AF arrived :D ..FET October Image
Niffie .........Start date tbp Image
Bobbi..........Start date tbp Image
KF06.........15th August cycle cancelled due to cyst Image moved to October
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Mia i am so heartfelt sorry for your BFN ... i love your out look on the future your DH sounds like an angel your so blessed to have each other ... God willing your FET will have great success ... with a big hug ...enjoy your wine or beer and time off with hubby i can understand you needing that this whole process is so draining ...looking forward to seeing you here for our support in your FET...

lots of love and prayers Debz
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Post by newbie_rose »

Mia,
Keep up the positive attitude! Take care!
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ER - 8/28
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Mia hun,

So sorry to hear ur news :cry: , but i love ur PMA, keep that up and keep smiling :)

Becky Xxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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souris
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Post by souris »

Mia, so sorry to read your news.
Take care of yourself

big hug to you sweetie

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souris
Me 27, DH 55
04/ 05 ICSI -tive 02/06 ICSI. No fertilisation
09/ 06 ICSI. BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks.04/07 ? ICSI -tive
04/08 ICSI BFP!!! M/C at 12 weeks
Feb 09 6th ICSI has started! neg
June 09 7th ICSI. Please make it happen!!
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Post by Macca8 »

Mia,

So sorry to read your news. I am glad you are been positive.
It will help a lot in the long term. I, like you will be trying to exercise even more than ever and eating healthily. We might be cycle buddies in November for our FET's.

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Post by Macca8 »

Jack.ieG,

Congrats on your LFP. Hope the levels continue to rise for you.

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Post by angelamw »

Hi, Just to let you know that we are back from Et and it all went well. Apparently we have made medical history and my notes are going to be used for future teaching on IVF. We had 20 eggs so they did ICSI on 10 and IVF on 10. They said that the IVF ones would be better so provided they worked we would use them.

Today we found out that all of the IVF eggs had survived but were very fragmented. Of the ICSI eggs all 6 that fertalised had survived the night, 1 was grade 1 and the rest grade 2. We have had 2 put back in, the 1 and one of the 2's. The other 4 are going to be frozen later on today.

I am really surprised because our clinic don't want you to bed rest, only to take it easy and no lifting. Our consultant thinks that you have more chance of clotting problems if you bed rest so I am taking it easy. I thought I had better post my news to you then I am going back to the settee.

Mia I am so sorry about your BFN. Take care and I am sure that your time will come.

To everyone else good luck and I will post soon

Angela
P.S I forgot to say that they emailed us a copy of the photo of the embryos
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Post by Ems1971 »

Mia - sorry to read of your BFN - great PMA though. Am thinking of you and your DH.
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2nd IVF Jan 07 - BFP! Ruby May born 24.10.07
3rd IVF March 10 - BFP on 30.3.10! Iris Josephine born 1.12.10
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Post by AuntyPebbles »

Angela...fantastic news now your on your TWW i have also read a lot about not bed resting for the TWW i have to say im not going to this time i have in both my previous cycles and it did me no good...wishing you the best of luck...

love and hugs Debz
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Post by nimble »

Mia - so sorry about yr BFN :cry: - you have a wonderful attitude and outlook that it gives us the courage to keep up those PMA's . Your very lucky to have such a wonderful DH , who is very supportive.

Angela - wow - how exciting is that - medical history!!

how is eveyone else on this gorgeous saturday? Becky - how are you? Are you still feeling a little low or has all our PMA reached you ? :D

JackieG - hope your beta has risen - holding out for you.... :D

Off to do some retail therapy - wishing you a wonderful saturday and will pop back later.
lots of love to everyone
Jackie xxx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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