Suz,
I hate to see your -ve. Wish I knew what to say to you at a time like this, but I'm sending you a hug from Seattle.
Here's a link to an article that I found today that talks about many women choosing to have kids in their 40s... please don't think turning 40 is going to shut down your chances - you've still got some years.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
Hi Ladies
Minnow, Raji & Suz sorry to hear your results.
Sorry I've not been about but just had a really bad period and have just been in bed.
We had our follow up today and they recommend more treatment so we do it again in August! They will do some extra scans to keep an eye on my womb lining in the mean time to see if the endo is causing any problems.
Hope everyone on the 2ww is coping
Wendy
TTC 7yrs, Me 35 (severe endo) DH 36
IVF nov06 8th time lucky BFP! - 1 baby boy
FET Aug o8 - BFN
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Hi...anxiously awaiting my test date and it's March 19th. I was a day 5 xfr this afternoon. Sitting here on the recliner watching the horrible daytime TV. Bring on the sleep for my bed rest which is over on Saturday! Until then, look forward to chatting with you guys.
Hi Jude and Sue, sorry for the -ve results. I know it is hard as I too am going through the same phase.
My doctor has asked us to go for a second opinion, but I am and DH are not so keen in asking for a second opinion as we feel what more can a second opinion give us. plus since I do have a 7 yr old son, all other clinics are far away and the question of where to leave our son when we need to go to the clinic is a big question mark. so at the most we might just switch doctors in the same group.I will be scheduling my next appointment with the other doctor very soon. but right now i am totally heart broken.
and just told GOD- "keep giving me as many challenges YOU want, but I will overcome all the challenges and get what i want" I have been an achiever all life long, so i know if not now then at one time I will be able to get my DH another beautiful baby.
Hello Jude - sorry to read your news. You must be very disappointed. Just remember to take some time to recover from this and pamper yourself. After all of the treatment you'll need to recover, then plan for the future.
Take care and sending you a hug.
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
Jude,
There are no words. So I'll just swear some more @^%!&*!!!!
Peace to you and yours. Randa
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06